problems...stress...almost 15 weeks pregnant...

mnmarsh

To make a really long story as short as possible and also still be understood. my baby's father and i was together 2 years ago, not anymore, slept together again and now having a baby by a man i can no longer stand. He does not see the reason why I want him to go to my doctor appointments with me. He has already missed the baby's heartbeat the first time and he doesn't want to have anything to do with baby before born, and everything to do with baby after (s)he is born. To me that seems wrong. I believe since he doesn't have a job or anything going on he should try to make my appointments. Am I being unreal or insane? Doctor said I am to stressed out and I need to focus on me and baby. Should I stop wasting my breath on him and not even bother? 

 

Please Help! I'm in need of my sanity back or what little I have left.

 

Megan  

Crystal318

I too had an unplanned pregnancy (with someone I was "dating" for 9 months) which can be stressful in itself.

 I say that you just have to focus on whats important right now....YOU and the BABY. You are in control of your body and no one elses. I think its perfectly normal for you to want him there but ultimately it is his loss for not being there. You deserve to enjoy your pregnancy as much as possible and do not let him get in the way of it!

 Go Luck!!!!