TTC After a Loss

Insomnia

I am really worried that i have become dependent on ambien.  I had never taken a sleeping pill in my life until after Ella passed.  My  doctor sent me home with a prescription.  I didn't start taking them until a few weeks later when I wasn't able to go to sleep.  And I only took them 3 to 4 nights a week.  Now, I can be exhausted, but I just can't fall asleep without them  I will skip three nights or so and only get a couple hours of sleep-then I will cave and take one or a half of one.  Has anyone ever expereinced this?  How did you stop taking them without dying of exhaustion?
Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

Re: Insomnia

  • I tried Ambien only a few times because it made me forget the whole next morning. Like I would be teaching in the afternoon and wouldn't be able to remember my drive to work or my morning classes. It was scary. Therefore, I never had time to get dependent on those. However, when I was really sick once before, the doctor gave me cough medicine that would make me pass out. After the bottle was gone, I couldn't sleep without it. After many, many sleepless nights I guess my body adjusted and let me sleep again.
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

    image

    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
  • Loading the player...
  • I first took Tylenol PM for a while to help me sleep and for the pain. Once the pain was gone I went on benedryl to help me sleep. It was the same medicine as in sleeping pills and cheaper. I was taking 3 a night!

    When DH started getting worried i'd become dependent on them, i started downgrading. I took 2 a night for a few weeks. Then 1 a night.. and finally none.

    Now, every once in a blue moon i'll take some to help me when i'm having a bad night.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • As a guideline, doctors will tell you to never take Ambien 14 nights in a row. IMO, that's way too many. You sound like you started off right by taking one, then skipping a couple of days. However, it doesn't take long at all for your body to "forget" how to sleep without them. After just one night of aided sleep, the next night can be rough. I found that the best solution to me is the night after I've taken Ambien to take Benadryl (or Tylenol PM or Simply Sleep- it all has diphenhydramine as the active ingredient). Then go without any sleep-aid at least for one night after taking the benadryl. I think it helps that lag in between an Ambien night and a non-medicated night.

    Please note that I am in no way a physican or a medical expert. This is just a handy trick I've learned to help. You should always consult with your phyiscian before taking any medication.

     HTH!

    married 09.06.08
    BFP #1 - m/c on 12.22.09 @ 8w3d
    BFP #2 - d&c on 07.22.10 @11w1d
    BFP #3 - DS born on 06.22.11 @41w3d!
    BFP #4 - Due 04.24.13
  • I was on the generic form of Ambien for a year or two, way longer than two weeks and my dr kept renewing my rx.  I was sooo busy with school and work that when I came home from all of that I knew I had to go to sleep right away in order to get 7 hours of sleep before starting it all over again, and being so wound up from the day I could never go to sleep right away..my mind would keep going and going and going and I could never shut it off!  Thats how I ended up on ambien.

    Now I take whatever is over the counter thats benadryl-like.  I still have the absolute most aweful time getting to sleep these days, but at least I work eve's now so I can sleep in if I need to.

    ((hugs))

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    bfp 01/23/10 m/c 12w1d 03/14/10 EDD 09/24/10
    bfp 07/20/10 m/c 5w1d 07/25/10
    bfp 11/19/10 Born 07/24/11 via C/S

    My Forever Sister From Another Mister~CashewsMommy!!

  • imagerock-elle:

    I was on the generic form of Ambien for a year or two, way longer than two weeks and my dr kept renewing my rx.  I was sooo busy with school and work that when I came home from all of that I knew I had to go to sleep right away in order to get 7 hours of sleep before starting it all over again, and being so wound up from the day I could never go to sleep right away..my mind would keep going and going and going and I could never shut it off!  Thats how I ended up on ambien.

    Now I take whatever is over the counter thats benadryl-like.  I still have the absolute most aweful time getting to sleep these days, but at least I work eve's now so I can sleep in if I need to.

    ((hugs))

    Thats how I feel.  My body is so exhausted, but I can't turn my brain off.  I work evenings too.  I think that is part od it- I am so wound up when I get off at eleven.  I just can't unwind and go sleep. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • When I was studying for the bar exam I took Ambien for probably 2 weeks.  It took me about 3 days of literally no sleep before I could sleep normally again.  Never again...
    ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________
    BFP #1 3/27/10 - mmc discovered 5/20/10 at 11w2d - d&c 5/21/10
    BFP #2 11/6/10 - EDD 7/19/11 - Beta #1 @ 13dpo, 104 - Beta #2 @ 20dpo, 3400s
    BFP #3 4/24/13 - EDD 1/8/14 - Beta #1 @ ?, 33 - Beta #2 @ 4 days later, 260
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Do you take a whole Ambien or half?  I have a friend that takes them and she claims that when she only takes half a pill it still gets her to sleep but doesn't effect her the next night if she's not taking anything.  I've never taken it so I'm not sure if that would work but maybe you could start off by taking only half a pill to ween yourself off? 

    I usually have trouble falling asleep to and I don't really like pills so I haven't taken anything for it.  One thing that I find helps me is falling asleep with the TV on.  Thankfully DH doesn't mind and is so used to it now he can't fall asleep without it.  I put on something that takes no brain cells that I've watched a million times (like Friends or Seinfeld reruns) and have the volume so low i can just hear it.  I find my mind focuses on the show and stops thinking about anything else and eventually I drift off and I set the sleep timer so it goes off by itself. 

    If I am in a silent room, my mind will never turn off.  Not sure if this would help at all but it's just an idea.

    Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days) Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD... Jan 2011 - IVF #1 - C/P Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies May 2011 - FET #1 - BFP!! Twins!!! 2/9/12 - Our precious miracles arrived! Baby A 7lbs 13oz & Baby B 5lbs 13oz
  • I have never taken Ambien, but I have had serious sleep issues since the loss. I was taking Motrim Pm to help me sleep for a while and I worried that I had become dependent on it. I basically just tried taking it only a couple nights a week instead. But I know Ambien can be habit-forming, so you might want to talk about it with your doctor.
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    image
    image
    BFP 1: 3/19/10 Loss: 7/9/10
    BFP 2: 12/28/10
    My Blog: Losing Sylvia
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"