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OMG. Serious T&P needed for DH's cousin

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My MIL just told me that my DH's cousin's 3 month old died today at the babysitter.  They tried for years and years to get pregnant and were due at the same time as my EDD.  Obviously, they were over the moon about him.  I just checked her FB page and she had posted new pictures of him yesterday.  All we know is that he didn't wake up from a nap, but had been a happy, healthy little guy.  My heart breaks for them.  :(
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member

    Sending thoughts and prayers to DH's cousin and his family.  My heart is breaking just hearing this story  Broken Heart

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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    Oh that is so awful.  Saying a prayer for them now.
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  • lyndsaynicolelyndsaynicole member
    That is terrible! They don't know what happened? It's absolutely heartbreaking...my thoughts and prayers go out to them. :(
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  • GummybearGummybear
    How horrific and utterly devastating. I am praying for them.
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  • jamilynn9jamilynn9 member
    Oh my God.  I'm so so sorry.  That's absolutely horrible and my heart break for them.
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  • owenstowenst
    Oh no...I can't even imagine.  T&P to them.
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    Oh no, I am so so sorry Crying
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  • shelshel79shelshel79
    OMG, I don't even know what to say.  I can't imagine.  Lots of T&P for them and the family.
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  • michroccmichrocc member

    Oh, no.  That's terrible. 

     I'm so so so very sorry.  I'll be thinking of your family and your DH's cousin.  I can't imagine. 

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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
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    Sending thoughts and prayers to DH's cousin and his family.  My heart is breaking just hearing this story  Broken Heart

    Lots of thoughts and prayers, Do they know anything? 

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  • LaceFace14LaceFace14 member
    Many, Many thoughts and prayers. That is so heartbreaking.
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  • damabo80damabo80 member
    How awful! T+Ps headed their way


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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    That is so sad.  I will be thinking of them.

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  • sunflowr0803sunflowr0803 member
    OMG, that is awful!!!! :( My heart is breaking for them. Sending them some serious T&P!
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  • StretchadStretchad member
    How awful. Thinking of your family. 
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member

    This is terrible. Praying right now for them.


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  • Karen1998Karen1998 member
    Oh my gosh, how awful!  I'm so sorry for your and their loss.  I said a prayer for your family.
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  • bridgeybridebridgeybride
    omg. that is so sad.. I can't even imagine what they're going through.. T&P for the whole family.
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  • elisbuelisbu member
    OMG, sending thoughts an prayers. So sad.Broken Heart
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  • anonomityanonomity
    Oh my gosh, how horrifying and heartbreaking.  I am definitely sending T&Ps to them.  
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  • Zed58Zed58
    Oh my gosh. That's crushing.  I'm so sorry for you dh's cousin and you entire family.  Huge T's & P's to all of you.
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  • spincat9spincat9 member
    Oh wow, my heart breaks for them.  Sending thoughts and prayers to your family.
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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member

    O that's devastating! I am so sorry.  I will say a prayer for your family tonight!

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  • maymaymiamaymaymia
    Their family will be in my prayers for sure. How awful.
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member
    Oh, I am so very sorry. How tragic. :( My thoughts are with your family.
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    Oh that is just heartbreaking. I?m so so sorry. They will definitely be in my prayers.

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  • pennynjonpennynjon

    That is so sad.  They will be in my prayers.

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  • kbel424kbel424
    Oh gosh, that is heartbreaking. T&P
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  • VeilSdeGTOVeilSdeGTO member
    I'm so sorry. I'll be sending T&P's.
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  • Marta-EveMarta-Eve
    That's so sad, I couldn't even imagine. I'm so so sorry. Sending my thoughts and prayers.
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  • shanna82shanna82 member

    Oh, that is sooo sad  Crying

    Lot's of T&Ps.

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  • jms2005jms2005
    How devastating. They will be in my T&Ps.
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    OH goodness, I can't even imagine the pain they are in.  They are definitely in my thoughts.
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  • jerriesgirljerriesgirl
    I am so, so sorry! 
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    That's awful!  They are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • TeacherVickyTeacherVicky member

    Oh my, that is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry this tragedy has happened in your family. Sending tons of T&P's.

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  • a&b=him&mea&b=him&me member
    sending my prayers....so so terrible :(
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Oh no! I'm sending lots of thoughts and prayers there way!
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  • mommy411mommy411 member
    Oh dear God! T&P to them!
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  • uklawgirluklawgirl member
    Oh my, what a nightmare. I am so sad to hear this. I am sending them earnest prayers and also prayers for the babysitter. I am sure they will have tremendous guilt and sadness as well, even if he died of natural causes and there was nothing they could do.
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