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Misrepresented DH (Not TTCAL related & a bit AWish)

Ok, confession time. When I first joined the bump it was a few days after my loss. It's my first chat board, I wasn't down with the lingo and I saw that everyone referred to their partners as DH. I knew it was something husband, but I just went with it anyway even though we weren't married. I thought BF would stand for best friend.

Anyway, he won't be my BF for long, he proposed last weekend!! It was a total surprise. We knew maybe eventually we would do it but it wasn't priority 1 for us at all. He totally shocked me and we are going to get married in October, we don't want to wait. So I have one month to plan a wedding!

I'm sure everyone will think I'm pregnant, ha, if only they knew!

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Re: Misrepresented DH (Not TTCAL related & a bit AWish)

  • Congrats on the engagment!! I am an October Bride also.

     

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  • First, Congratulations on the engagement! Second, I too find that some of the lingo is very hard to figure out. I keep clicking on the bump glossary to figure it out LOL Cake
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  • Congratulations!!!!  What is your wedding date?  I have 24 days until we are married - so excited!

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  • That's wonderful!  Congratulations!
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  • Congrats!! That is awesome news.  Wishing you all the best and happy planning!
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    Congratulations!!!!  What is your wedding date?  I have 24 days until we are married - so excited!

    We are aiming for October 2nd, but we have to pick a venue still! 24 days, you must be so excited!!!!!

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  • Exciting news!  Congrats!
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  • Aw, that is so sweet.  Congratulations!
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  • I know I already said it, but congrats!! You should PIP your ring  :)

    Oh and BF also stands for breast feeding on TB :) Wouldn't want to get those confused--could lead to some interesting explanations :)
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  • AHHH Congrats!! That's so exciting! Good luck with the quick planning! I hope that it's fortuitous and you are KU soon!
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  • Oh my gosh!! That is so exciting! Congrats!!!  I think I'd feel a major rush planning a wedding in only a month.  No time to worry about the little details or second guess things.  I'd find it so exhilarating.  HUGE CONGRATS!!
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  • Congrats!! Thats great!
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  • Congrats!  Good luck planning!  I wish I could plan mine all over again, or just become a wedding planner.  It's so fun!
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  • Congratulations!! Big Smile  You'll get it together - sometimes I think people just make themselves crazy on the details because that's the thing to do. 

    I was an October bride too!  10/1 for us - we're almost date twins :)  

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  • Meh, doesn't bother me. I'll confess that I know what FH conveys and use it, but not what the exact words are. Embarrassed There are a couple like that, but the others escape me at the moment..

    YAY BEST WISHES!! Party!!! So happy for your guys! I was an October Bride also! October 25th will be 2 years.

    You are brave to plan in less than a month!

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  • Congrats!!!  Good luck with the planning!  My DH and I were engaged for 2 1/2 years before I decided it was time.  We planned ours in less than a month.
  • Congratulations!!  October is one of my favorite months!
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  • That wonderful!!  Congratulations!!
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  • congrats> i love weddings!
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  • An October Wedding will be beautiful! I am so happy for you!
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  • yay! Congratulations! Thats awesome!! I'm also an October bride!!! Its my favorite month!!  GL!!!
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  • Congrats!! A fall wedding will be amazing! Have fun planning!!
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  • imageshanna82:
    I know I already said it, but congrats!! You should PIP your ring  :)

    Oh and BF also stands for breast feeding on TB :) Wouldn't want to get those confused--could lead to some interesting explanations :)

    So excited for you and your DH-to-be!!!  :)

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  • Wow, so many October brides! Sounds like we picked a good month.

    Thanks for all the well wishes everyone! I have to admit, I didn't think I was romantic or cared about this sort of thing. But here I am a gushing girl!! I'm so excited! **Sqeeeeel** Here is a pic of my ring! It's sapphire, my birthstone.

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    Wow, so many October brides! Sounds like we picked a good month.

    Thanks for all the well wishes everyone! I have to admit, I didn't think I was romantic or cared about this sort of thing. But here I am a gushing girl!! I'm so excited! **Sqeeeeel** Here is a pic of my ring! It's sapphire, my birthstone.

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    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

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  • Congrats!! And the ring is beautiful!
  • Congrats!!!!! I hope it's the wedding of your dreams!!!


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  • Congratulations on your engagement & happy wedding planning!!! :)
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  • Yay! Congratulations! And your ring is BEAUTIFUL!!! :-) Good luck planning everything!

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  • Congrats! Love the ring!
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  • Ouuu, I had to come back and say I love your ring!  I'm partial, as a fellow blue stone e-ring girl :)  So happy for you and your soon-to-be DH!
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  • OMG that is wonderful news!!!!!!!!! congrats!
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  • Congrats and happy planning!  Your ring is lovely!
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  • Congrats on the engagement!

     

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  • Whaooo!!!  Congrats on the upcoming nuptials!
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  • Congrats!!!  How exciting :-)
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