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TTC After a Loss
magpiebride
Can you please explain to me why this board and it's "rules" are so hard for you? To me, and most people on TTCAL, it is common sense.
Lurk a little to get the feel for the board. Make an introduction so we know who you are and you story. GIVE support to GET support.
Why is this so hard? I think you may be the one who needs to grow up.
I also think you need to remove your head from you sphincter before you post here.
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Re: magpiebride
bfp 01/23/10 m/c 12w1d 03/14/10 EDD 09/24/10
bfp 07/20/10 m/c 5w1d 07/25/10
bfp 11/19/10 Born 07/24/11 via C/S
My Forever Sister From Another Mister~CashewsMommy!!
Thanks so much for all your help. I made a short intro a little while back, but didn't go into a lot of detail about my story so to speak. Here it is... I married my husband 6.12.10, we started unofficially trying that night. we went on our honeymoon two weeks later, and came back to a BFP. As someone who (like most of us) has always wanted children, it was no doubt a dream come true. When we told our parents we were told "big mistake". Great. Thanks. But we ignored it and continued to be thrilled. Saw the doc at the 5 week mark, said all was going well. At the 8 week mark there was no heartbeat. Devastation sets in. As a wedding photographer I had already contacted my March 2011 wedding clients to inform them I would be in a very difficult situation and unable to guarentee my presence on their wedding day as I would be expecting within that month. They of course decided to go another way, as I expected they would, and I happily looked forward to an empty month of March when it comes to work. The two days after my missed m/c was realized, I had to do a maternity shoot, followed by a different client's newborn shoot. It was a real blast. I took cytotec twice, and although it had me on the floor it never really worked. so I got to go in for a d&c a week later. I have gone through 3 docs, the first looked at me and said "why are you crying, you weren't even trying were you? you had just gotten married". To the second doc who said "well i don't know what to tell you, this happens to a lot of women, it's something you need to get over." to the final doc, who is amazing. finally. That is my story. sorry for the delay.
As for the rules of this board, I fully understand them now thanks to everyone who so kindly informed me of them. Now I understand why these common courtesies exist, but the harshness of the group I do not. yes I pushed back when I thought the excessiveness of your language towards a woman who may very well be on her way to our situation was a bit much. I'm not sorry for that, but I am sorry it got so out of hand. Honestly though posts like that get out of hand daily around the bump, so I'm afraid that it's a way to pass the time, and almost looked forward to.
Aren't we all dealing with this? If anger and lashing out is one way of coping... trust me I get it. My poor DH got the worst of it from me. But we're all suffering, and you can be snarky, but I would be very careful with how harsh you get. Karma is a ***. So let's just play nice and remember that emotions are high, even our own, and could use some patience.
Now I've got Gloria Estefan stuck in my head but with karma vs. rhythm.
"Karma is gonna get you, Karma is gonna get you, Karma is gonna get you."
I tried explaining on the post--which we all saw that she still didn't get it. So she proceeded to send me a PM with the same doucheyness sarcasm as she posted on this thread.
I read for a few seconds, couldn't take any more of her craptastic attitude and hit "delete" before finishing. I do not think there is hope for her.
She clearly has no grasp on what we were all trying to saying and just thinks we're all meanie heads. We should all ignore her stupidity and hope she GBCB forever.
I hope you all get your take home babies... and soon. And I hope you teach them to be better people than you're showing yourselves to be right now.
I "got it" on the post, but now you're just being directly mean. Now you are not getting it. This about does it for me here. You have successfully gotten rid of another bumper who doesn't see things exactly the way you do. More than that... someone who graduated from middle school lunch hour antics.
Okay, 1 down, at least 1 to go.
Awwwwwwwww we got Karma and GBCB all in one post.
At least it was Karma and not Kharma
You know, I was almost feeling bad for you. And then you pulled the karma card.
Buh Bye.