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Ugh! I knew it was coming

lorlei13lorlei13 member
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A friend of mine just a had a baby in June and I have been waiting for (and dreading) the "let's get together" invite from a friend for a while now.  This is their 2nd baby since my miscarriage and their 5th child altogether.   While I was excited for them and I haven't seen them in a really long time, I am just dreading having to be around all those children especially the one that is a couple months younger than the age my child should be.  Just give me strength to get through the evening!

Is it December yet?

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  • tamhen1979tamhen1979 member
    I am sorry.I always dreaded this situation.
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  • jerriesgirljerriesgirl

    ((hugs))

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  • RunSchwartzRunRunSchwartzRun
    5!?!?!  I think that is just crazy and I wouldn't blame you if you took a flask with you.  C'mon December!
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    I am sorry!!! I know how hard it's going to be. I'll be thinking of you tonight!


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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    I'm sorry. Hugs!
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I agree with taking a flask with you! I'm so sorry. I hope that you are able to have a great visit with your friend.
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  • Rawr08Rawr08

    I hope you enjoy your visit despite the kids running around.  Sending strength your way to get through it!

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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
    Hugs, I am so sorry. I agree take a flask. 
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  • liveforhimliveforhim member
    I'm so sorry I know how hard that is:(  I will be praying for you tonight! ((HUGS))
    So excited for our little blessing:)
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  • Kristin&AdamKristin&Adam
    I am so sorry - lots of hugs and good thoughts for you!  And I agree.. a flask may not be a bad idea :)
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