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Work needs to be over now

crystalknppcrystalknpp member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

The stupid FH I work with who told me while I was miscarrying that I've lost my past two babies and will continue to have losses because I'm not religious enough just announced her pregnancy to everyone at work today.  She is freakin 6 weeks pregnant and she's telling the world.  I seriously hate this sh*t and I hate how angry I am right now.

Maybe this makes me a bad person but I'm the only one who couldn't say "Congratulations"....She told everyone and I just kinda snuck out back to my office.  If I wasn't in the 2WW I would sooo be drinking tonight.

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Re: Work needs to be over now

  • rabstbmomrabstbmom

    Um, tell your co-worker that after 20 years of not going to any kind of church, I returned to the Catholic Church last year for my wedding. I have been going to church every week since then. I went back to the church because my husband is (and always has been) a practicing Catholic who observes his lenten practices, sings in the church choir, well, you get the picture.  And my mother and my MIL are both very religious to the point where they have been lighting candles in front of the Mother of Perpetual Help every week since my first BFP. If lack of religion causes m/c, ask her to explain why I had two in the first 6 months of marriage!!

    Seriously, though, I want to vag punch her for you. I find that so incredibly offensive. And I REALLY hope you get your BFP so you can prove her wrong.

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  • CarrieLeigh84CarrieLeigh84 member
    Booooo to your co-worker. She needs a serious vagina kick.
    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Your co-worker seriously sucks.  I'm sorry.
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  • schen0510schen0510
    You are totally NOT a bad person.  There are a couple of people that I work with that are pg and I have not congratulated them...because they are total FHs and super nasty about everything.  They do not deserve having another person feeling happy for them.  I think this woman needs a total cold shoulder!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Your coworker sucks and she sounds like someone who I work with. She announced at 5 weeks and still continues to smoke cigarettes.

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