So frustrated

aurora1974

Well, AF was supposed to show yesterday.  She didn't so I got my hopes way up and tested this morning.  BFN. Now I'm absolutely crushed.  And to make things worse I found out last night that ANOTHER person I know is pregnant.  And they weren't trying.  I want to be happy for them but I'm so bitter and jealous about it and right now I'm having a hard time getting past it.

So I guess this next cycle I will try an OPK and see if that helps.

jcath

I'm sorry, seems like we are having lots of late AFs for no good reason around here. 

Killer Tomato

I sympathize. Stupid late AFs. Poke her with a stick. A pointy stick.

Don't feel bad for being jealous...it's natural. It's not nice, but it's natural...lol. You will be happy for them at some point soon, when you are not feeling so betrayed by late arriving AFs.

OscarQ

I'm sorry about the BFN and AF. 

Last year I wallowed in the bitter and the jealousy - it seemed like every few weeks another friend announced their pregnancy.  It's just a natural emotion and you should forgive yourself for feeling that way.

Good luck with the OPK's this cycle!

rach2100

OscarQ:

I'm sorry about the BFN and AF. 

Last year I wallowed in the bitter and the jealousy - it seemed like every few weeks another friend announced their pregnancy.  It's just a natural emotion and you should forgive yourself for feeling that way.

Good luck with the OPK's this cycle!

Ditto everything Oscar wrote!   GL!

aurora1974

Thanks everyone. 

nikilouhoo

I'm so sorry. As the others said, it's totally natural to feel this way. I, myself, am an admitted wallower, so feel free to join me. I wish you luck this cycle!

kinsalebride

so sorry crappy AF played headgames with you. and like others have said, there's nothing wrong with feeling sad/mad, etc. when the witch shows. And the jealousy part is completely normal. I went through that more times than I could count when we were TTC #1. good luck next cycle.

sunnydaisy

Sorry about the BFN.  I hate it when AF messes with our heads like that.

GL with the OPK!

redsoxbono

{{hugs}}

amcrd

So sorry...AF sucks, BAD! Had the same thing happen this week as well. She plays cruel, cruel jokes!  I too am a wallower, do it for a day or so! Trying OPK this cycle as well instead of jumping in to IUI #2. If no luck, will do another one next cycle.

GL!!

shyntrue

{{Hugs}}