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Reality Check

surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
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I just realized it has been almost one year since pregnancy.  Where did the time go?  You know, I thought for sure I would have been pregnant by now.  F'ing sucks.

ETA: 27 months woah, seriously?  Now, I know that my story is not any worse then others, I am just shocked and now well into my 38th year.  Not one other person IRL has been this way. F'ing FHs.

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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    I've been thinking the same thing recently, Kona. Just 6 or so weeks and I'll be one year since conceiving. It's hard to believe.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    I didn't even realize how close you and I were
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  • jen629jen629 member
    {{{HUGS}}
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
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  • babes12babes12 member
    i'm approaching the 1yr mark of TTC in sept.  Sad  F-in Blows!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin

    (((hugs)))

    I think you deserve an "anniversary gift" of sorts. 

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  • jdeats71jdeats71
    big hugs to you.....
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  • AtoBAtoB
    Hugs... I'm sorry Sad
    "Fondly do we hope, fervently do we pray." 12/09: 5 weeks, natural miscarriage 3/10: 7 weeks, natural miscarriage 6/11: BFP! 7/11: we have a heartbeat! BabyFruit Ticker
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  • Mocha GirlMocha Girl
    ((((HUGE HUGS)))) to both of you!!!
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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva

    I was thinking the same thing today! 

    August 14th of 2009 I got my first ever BFP.

    I am praying for a BFP a few days after 8/14.

    Bittersweet, but I would definitely be thrilled.

    Hugs for you sweetie.

     

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  • Court1Court1
    Yeah, it f'ing sucks.  I got my BFP on August 21st 09'.  Tick tock, tick tock.  Almost there....blah!
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member

    I'm so sorry hon (((HUGS)))

    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    ((hugs))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • TravelinMamaTravelinMama member
    :::hugs Kona:::
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
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  • swanckswanck

    This blows.

    I'm sorry.

     

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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    I'm so sorry, Kona.
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Oh Kona...This time last year I too was pg with our first lo...And here I am still, with empty arms and a heavy heart...I completely understand...It just isn't fair....
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I was talking to dh the other day, I can't believe we have been trying for over 7 years. We are surrounded by fh's in our family and friends.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

    my blog

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  • summerbee1summerbee1 member

    Girl, I know I've been MIA, but always thinking about you and the rest of the crew here. I just passed the one year mark since my m/c (Aug 5) and am nearing the end of our 12th cycle TTCAL.

    I hate my life. When I started trying, none of my friends or family was even talking about having kids and now I swear at least 20% of my friends on facebook are ku. To think I was worried about being the only party-pooper a year ago. How petty and stupid of me. All I want is to have a kid, I don't care how. DH is totally against ANY kind of intervention or help, so FML. Natural it is, or divorce I guess.....Crying

    I'm so sorry you're going through this, I'm right there with you! (((HUGS)))

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  • maceymay1816maceymay1816 member

    I'm right there with ya too.  This time last year we had met with the doc and began the plan.  It really suxs!  Most people I know have been FH's who just seem to pop up pregnant.  Lucky bitches! 

    This has been one of the most stressful years of my life.  I'm praying the next year will be filled with BFP's for all of us.

    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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