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14dpiui....BFN :-(

So I POAS today and it was still negative. I think I can officially say this cycle is a bust.  I have been having lots of AF like cramps but I know AF won't show until I am off the progesterone.  My RE will still make me wait until Sat to do my beta.

I had an iced white mocha today to sooth my hurt, sugar and caffeine take that IF!  I know I am such a rebel ;-).

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Re: 14dpiui....BFN :-(

  • I'm sorry to hear that. :( I hope the iced white mocha helped, even just a little bit.  Treating yourself is always a good thing, keep it up.
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  • I'm sorry sweetie, but you still have to hang in there for your Beta.  I think sometimes we all deserve an occassional iced mocha! ((hugs))
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  • You deserve that mocha! I'm so sorry about your BFN though. :(
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  • I'm so sorry, sweetie. That really bites the big one. Enjoy your mocha... You deserve it.
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  • Ugh.  I'm so sorry *hugs*

    I had wine and cookie dough Tuesday night.  What, I was supposed to cook it first? Oooops.  I think you should have another mocha later!

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  • I am sorry to hear that.  I am glad you treated yourself today, you definitely deserve that!  Hang in there! 
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  • I'm sorry!

    The mocha sounds fantastic.

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  • I am so sorry.  (((hugs)))
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  • Big hugs. I'm so sorry. But the iced mocha does sound yummy.
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  • So sorry hon. Hope you get a surprise beta.  Enjoy your mocha. :)
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  • I'm so sorry this cycle didn't work out. :( Huge hug.
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  • I am so sorry, Cindy. (((HUGEHUGS)))
    Stacy
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  • I am so sorry!  (((hugs)))

    Glad you treated yourself

    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
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    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
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    Aug FET #3 = BFN
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  • I'm so sorry hun! :( I was really hoping this would be it for you!

    You more than deserve your treat!

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  • ((hugs))  I'm sorry.

    You deserve that mocha (and some wine and ice cream later too!)

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  • Sorry, bfn's suck big time.  I don't even like coffee but an iced white mocha sounds good!

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. You're iced mocha sounds delicious. I hope you enjoyed it! ((Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry about the bfn sweetie *hugs* Iced coffees are usually my bfn consolation too.
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  • I'm so sorry sweetie :(  Hugs....enjoy that mocha.  It sounds delish!
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  • So sorry hun.  IF just sucks!  I'm glad that you treated yourself.  When I had my MC, BFN and cancelled FET I went straight through the McDonald's drive through.  We need to comfort ourselfves during these crappy times.

    Maybe just maybe those cramps are implantation.  Try to just wait it out until Saturday.

    (hugs)

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  • I'm so sorry about the BFN. Big ((hugs)) - I'm glad you enjoyed your mocha today, you deserve it!
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  • I am sorry!!! Hopefully the iced mocha helped!!
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  • so sorry... (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry.
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  • i am so so sorry.

    ::hugs:;

    TTC #2 since June '08

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    dx unexplained

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    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

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  • ((hugs)) Sweets.
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  • I'm sorry.

     

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • I'm so sorry. ((hugs)) Still having to go through with the beta really sucks, I understand why they have you do, but it's just an extra punch in the gut. Glad you found something to help ease the pain though :)
  • ((HUGS))  I'm sorry to hear that!!  Hopefully, your beta will surprise you!!
  • (((hugs))) So very sorry :(
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  • I'm so sorry :( HUGS

  • Ugh, I'm so sorry.  (((hugs)))  Iced white mocha sounds great.  If it were me, I'd add a little somethin' somethin' to that -  maybe some Baily's?  :)
  • I'm sorry.
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  • I'm sorry :(
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  • Sorry to hear about your BFN.  I hope the mocha was awesome and helped you enjoy something about today.
    TTC #1 since 4/09 w/ MFI
    IVF #1, 7/10: Cancelled due to dominant follicle; IVF #2, 9/10: c/p; FET #1, 11/10: c/p; IVF #3, 4/11: BFN; FET #2, 6/11: BFP! Beta #1 = 118 (11dp2dt), Beta #2 = 1975 (16dp2dt)
    DS born 2/17/12

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    IVF #4, 11/13: BFN; IVF #5, 3/14: BFP! Beta #1 = 59 (11dp2dt), Beta #2 = 406 (15dp2dt)
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  • Big ((hugs)) sweetie, I'm so sorry. I hope that iced white mocha was delicious!
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  • I am so sorry, good luck on the next cycle.
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