I'll call my attorney in the morning....but I need some advice now.
So ex sent me a text this morning saying he was planning on watching the girls when I go back to work next week (I'm a teacher). My mom has, for two years, come over to my house every day for free to do this. He barely manages to see them once or twice a month. I can't be late to work - I have students who rely on me to be in my room. Does he really think I can rely on him to watch the girls from 7:30-4? Our court order names me as primary custodian, and he has visitation Wednesday afternoon and EOW. It does say that if one of us needs a baby-sitter, the other parent will be the first person we ask. But I see this as child care, not baby-sitting. I'll be ok not to let the girls go with him, correct?
Annnd, the reason he's now so ready to play daddy is because he QUIT HIS JOB to go back to school for the FIFTH time. Homeboy doesn't have 10 credit hours under his belt. He also said he won't be paying child support, or that it will be lower. I'm correct in thinking that if he voluntarily, or even was fired, stops working - he is still responsible for his set amount, right?
Ugh, this is SO not what I needed now!
Re: Ugh, need some advice
Hellll no I wouldn't rely on him to be the primary daycare provider. More than likely he will wake up one day and decide that it just "isn't his thing" leaving you in a horrible position.
Sorry he is such a twatwaffle.
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He cannot quit his job and expect to get out of paying cs. Will not happen. I agree that childcare and babysitting are two different things. Even if they aren't, I wouldn't let him keep the girls while you work. If he wants to file contempt over that, let him, and then show how many, many times he has bailed on the girls when he was supposed to babysitting.
What a headache! Sorry you have to deal with this.
I would like to punch your ex. That is all. Freakin douche can not even take the girls when he should and he wants to watch them daily. Ya ok.
I called and left a message with my paralegal, who will talk it over with my attorney and call me back. Knowing his history, and the fact his attorney was disgusted by him, she just scoffed at the whole situation. I'll keep you girls posted.
I fully intend to let him take me back to court if he wants more visitation, or a lowering of child support. The first time he's late or offers a lower amount, I'll be down at the court house filing paperwork on his arrears. I mean, I'd love to quit my job and earn my Master's in less time!
This was my first thought...
Yah, I think it's based on earning POTENTIAL. 10 credits and he wants to go back now....wow. He sounds like he is SOOOO together. What a fvcking loser.
Maybe Sweetie can best answer this....idk much about CS seeing that I just signed up with DCSS.