TTC After a Loss

Would your DH post on the bump?

Found this on 2nd Tri...he's the first man I've seen on here that actually admits he's a man.

Hmm 

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Re: Would your DH post on the bump?

  • Nope.
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  • Confused Nope, he doesn't even FB or text!  As for that guy over on 2nd tri, I give him a little credit for trying, but I just don't see it working out that well...
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  • No. Thank God.
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  • nope, there is no way.
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  • NO!  All my dh does on the computer is check the weather.
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    No. Thank God.

     

    haha! this exactly

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  • Nah.  If he's sitting next to me on the sofa and notices that I'm sad or angry or furiously typing he'll ask to read it.  And sometimes I talk about you guys.  That's as involved as he'll get, though.  He'd never post. 
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  • No, and I'm not sure I would respect him if he did.

    It would be one thing if he were posting in a forum for dads and dads to be, or dads ttcal.

    But to go on a board of already pregnant women talking about vaginal discharge and weight gain, and then tell them to play nice...lame. Lamesauce indeed.

    I get a scary controll-freak vibe. I feel sorry for his wife (hey, first time I got to use the reverse of that!)

  • hahaha nope. not at all.

    I don't think he even knows what "thebump" is. He just knows I'm on an online support group for MC/PGL/TTC.


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  • Nope, he knows that it's an online support group and tells me that he's glad I've found someone to talk to so that I feel better.
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    No, and I'm not sure I would respect him if he did.

    It would be one thing if he were posting in a forum for dads and dads to be, or dads ttcal.

    But to go on a board of already pregnant women talking about vaginal discharge and weight gain, and then tell them to play nice...lame. Lamesauce indeed.

    I get a scary controll-freak vibe. I feel sorry for his wife (hey, first time I got to use the reverse of that!)

    This exactly.  

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  • unless it's the weather or ESPN, he's not interested
  • nahh, FI is only interested when he sees me on.

    But it's cute that he wants to gain as much knowledge as possible and is looking at all avenue's. a lot of men don't even want to read a book let-alone join a forum board. Kudos to him for that...then -kudos for telling them how to act lol - he's back at square one.

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  • Nope, never, ever.  He watches me online and sometmes shakes his head and laughs when I am typing away like crazy.  He knows I have met a few girls from TTTC IRL and I talk to some girls on the phone and he knows who they are (not that he keeps everyone straight - lol).  If I seem upset about something or for someone he asks what's wrong and I tell him and he's sympathetic.  But, he would never make a screen name and post on here.  I would feel like my privacy was violated if he did.  Not that I have any secrets from him on here, but I do occasionally vent about him or his mother - lol.  It would just be wierd. 
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  • every now and then I tell DH about something someone posted- especially if it's mud- and he'll put in his two cents, but he'd never post on here.

    I do wish there was a board somewhere (not here necessarily) for dads dealing with mc/pl and ttcal.  I really think that would help him.  So few women I know talk about m/c IRL, and surely none of the guys DH knows do and sometimes I get the feeling that he wishes there was someone he could talk to.

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    There is no way that DH would post on here.  No, NEVER. 

    Anyone else think it is MUD?  I was looking at the other posts and his wife's posts (she only has 40ish posts).  I think it is weird.  Something is off.

    When I was on the Knot we did have a guy on our month board, his was also on.  He became a FB friend for awhile, nice guy.  I didn't find that as weird. 

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  • No. He wouldn't post here. Occasionally he will take the computer while I'm in the bathroom or something and pretend he is going to just to make me mad but he wouldn't really post on the bump.

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  • No way.  I think that's weird.
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  • Definitely not.
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  • No, he wouldn't; and holy crap....  all that drama in the other two forums made my head hurt.  Wowza.
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