I saw your question about the vibe on TTCAL - it's a really great board full of amazingly supportive women. I've been posting there for over a year now, and I don't know how I would have gotten through everything without the ladies there.
The 6+ board tends toward the snark (and bless them all, they save me daily), but the regular board, while not p&r at all times, moves quickly and the posters have a wealth of knowledge and information to pass along.
Just wanted to share, and encourage you to check it out.
Re: ***ohashlet***
I can understand right now, when everything is so raw. Take all the time you need!