TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Back after a really long time

Hi Girls, I hope you remember me. Since I took my extended bump break, DH found out that his sperm morphology is very low, and the RE gave us a 5% chance of being able to conceive without ART. We decided to go ahead with IVF and ICSI in November. I realized that I need you girls, especially now with this news. DH is 24 and I'm 25 so IVF didn't seem like it would be necessary so soon, and I'm taking a while to really digest this new information.

If you dont mind, give me an update on you so I can catch up :)

Re: Back after a really long time

  • Hi Mindy!  I'm so sorry for the news you got. I wish you lots of luck with the IVF this fall! 
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  • Yes, I remember you, welcome back!  I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but definitely lean on us for support!  What is your DH's morph?  Is IUI a possibility?

    Update on me...

    Had my 2nd m/c last month, and just got my first post-m/c AF today.  This cycle will be my 22nd cycle ttcal (first loss) and 3rd clomid/IUI cycle.

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    I am sorry :( but welcome back!....I am just waiting for this first cycle after my third miscarriage to be over so I can start Clomid next month
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  • Hey Mindy.  I remember you.  Glad you've got a plan!  I hope it works....it is certainly a lot to digest though
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  • Hey Mindy!

      Hope you are doing well.  We are in the middle of our third IVF here.  My dh's boys are not fab either and they gave us about the same 5% chance.  We were 26 when we got that diagnosis and I agree...it was tough.  My RE did try IUI a few times but then we moved onto IVF.  I know it is tough to digest but if you have any questions...please do not hesitate to ask.  

     GL!!  ((hugs)) 

  • Welcome back!   IVF is scary but the plus side is it is a much higher chance of succeeding then the 5% you've been given................My dh's morph is 1% so we are proceeding with IVF and ICSI as well.
     
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  • Welcome back!  I think we are going to be doing IVF in the next few months too.  Hope everything else is going well for you.

    Here's a link to an update on everyone from yesterday:

    https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/40379051.aspx

     

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  • Hi Mindy!  I remember you!!

    I'm on PgAL now - nearly 23 weeks along this time and hoping for an uneventful remaining 17 weeks!  Still, I consider +6 my "Home" so I'm here all the time. . . the ladies, they put up with me.

     

    :)

     So happy to see you've come back - there's SO MUCH KNOWLEDGE here on IVF stuff, I'm honestly astounded.  I hope Kelin checks in - she just did her first IVF cycle this month.  

  • I know it's a lot to take in, but I have a good feeling for you guys. I hope this is what does it!
  • Hi Mindy, welcome back. I'm sorry to hear about the results, but I wish you the best of luck with IVF.

    My update - I had my second loss about a month ago. I'm waiting on an HSG and some testing before moving to IUI this fall while DH is deployed.  

  • Hey girly, I'm most likely doing IVF in November too. We can biitchy and hormonal together :)
  • Hi Mindy and welcome back.  I hope the IVF works for you guys.

    As for me, we are at the beginning of our 2nd cycle of trying again since our 2nd loss in March.  Hoping for a BFP and successful pg on #3 soon!

     

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  • Mindy! It's good to "see" you again. I'm sorry it's under these circumstances though. I pray your IVF journey is fast. ::hugs::
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  • Welcome back!

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  • Hey girl! Glad to see you back!! GL in Nov!
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  • Hi, sorry you had to come back.  I just did the same this week since I went to the RE and start testing as soon as cycle #10 goes down the drain any day now.   That's so tough to have the odds stacked against you, but hopefully it'll just take 1 ivf cycle to kick you off this board.
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  • Hi, yes i remember you! 

    welcome back and Good luck w/ the IVF. 

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  • Hi!  I don't know if you know me, so I'm Betsy, I'm on round 2 of Clomid, and my history's in my siggy!  Welcome back and good luck with the IVF!
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  • Hey there!  welcome back.  But I'm not much of a welcome committee as I'm never around these parts.  Anyway, I wish you the best moving forward.  It's tough to digest, but you can do this!!
  • Welcome back! I just did ivf #3 and unfortunately had another loss. If you have any ivf questions let me know.

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  • so good to see you! I know you have gone through a lot and are had a lot to work though before getting to this decision - been thinking of you.

    update for me -- oh yeah! I'm still here. .  .we've done 2 IUI's w/meds this spring- all busts, have had more tests (lap, hsy) with nothing found - so we're still trying - just finishing 2nd month on our own before returning to IUI and meds in September.

    good luck sweets.

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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