I deleted my silly post...feeling like a loser today. Thanks to those who responded, though!
Childhood cancer (DH) + chemo + radiation = 0 sperm.
LO #1 - 1 unmedicated/self-monitored IUI w/ donor sperm.
LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
Life is beautiful!

Re: Never mind.
Not silly! You were just asking a question...and the things I was talking about were very shallow compared to what you were talking about.
And you are most definitely NOT a loser : )
It was just one of those posts where I was like, "why did I post that?" Especially after someone gives you a different perspective and you feel it was unwarranted in the first place...you know?
LO #1 - 1 unmedicated/self-monitored IUI w/ donor sperm.
LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
Life is beautiful!