TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I'm miserable

I'm sorry ladies, I know I've been down a lot and use this place to vent.

I'm just so miserable tonight.   I'm so stuffy it's hard to breath, I have a sore throat and a headache.  Not to mention a heart ache.  Dh's job is still keeping him gone.  Now he's talking about taking a different job where he would work 7 pm to 7 am.  Due to commuting, in opposite directions, we literally would never see each other.  He'd have 2 days off, but they'd be during the week, when I'm at work, assuming I get a job soon.  It just doesn't seem like he cares to be with me.  We're also coming up on our EDD, we should be planning a 2nd B-day party.

Thank you for "listening".  I don't know what I would do without you ladies.

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April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks

Re: I'm miserable

  • I'm sorry, Kristy. I hope things get better for you soon. ((Hugs))
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    I am sorry Kristy {{{HUGS}}}
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  • (((hugs)))

    I can't imagine how hard it is being apart from DH all the time. I'm so sorry you are feeling sad.

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  • {{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}  I hope that you start to feel better soon!!
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  • I'm sorry Kristy.  I hope that you are feeling better soon.  ANd, I'm really sorry about DH I hope you can figure out why he is being this way and get things to happen differently.  I know I would be really sad too if I didn't get to be around DH.  I'm sorry. hugs.
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  • I'm sorry Kristy, you deserve for things to be better.

    Have you talked to your DH about his job situation? Are their any job options with better hours or do you feel like he's CHOOSING jobs where he has to be away for long periods?

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  • I'm so sorry!  I hope you feel better soon and things start to turn around.
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  • I'm so sorry!!! I hope you start feeling better soon and you and DH are able to work something out so you see each other more!!!
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  • I'm sorry Kristy.  I hope things get better soon.  The job market is so tough right now, I'm sure your DH is just trying to do the best he can for both of you.  We're here for you.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm sorry you're having a tough time lately, Kristy. ((hugs))
  • Thank you ladies.  DH is choosing to be gone.  He chose to take a job that would keep him away from home and now he'd be choosing the night shift if he went to this other company. 
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • Sending hugs, so sorry. Hope things get better soon.

    Jenn

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