Success after IF

Please give me post-natal hope!

Just tell me that you've had sex again.  At some point.  And that it was enjoyable.  I'm begging you.
TTC since September '08 After 2 m/c - lap for stage 3-4 endo Oct '09 Bravelle w/Ovidrel trigger - iui on 11/07 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

Re: Please give me post-natal hope!

  • LOL...... sorry to laugh. I just remember thinking the same thing. Yes, it gets back to normal. Give yourself several weeks to heal though. The first time I was worried it being painful, but it wasn't. I did wait 6 weeks though.
    Beta#1=1293 (13dp5dt), Beta#2 =4462 (17dp5dt), Beta#3 =8039 (19dp5dt) BFP 5/8/2009 IVF#2 w/ICSI & AH - April 09 - Transfer 5/1 IVF#1 w/ICSI & AH - Feb 09 - BFN MFI - low morph 1998 - Lap - Endometriosis, 1994 - Lap - Endometriosis, TTC - Tooooo Long! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Jeremiah 29:11-13 11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.
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  • Yes you will!  It took us quite a while to work through the pain (about 4-5 months) but now it is rockin again and totally worth working through the pain!

    I honestly think it depends on how bad your delivery/recovery is.  Some it doesn't hurt at all...

    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • DochasDochas member
    Thank you.  I miss it. Crying
    TTC since September '08 After 2 m/c - lap for stage 3-4 endo Oct '09 Bravelle w/Ovidrel trigger - iui on 11/07 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Yes!  It took us about 6 months because of scar tissue that didn't heal correctly (very rare), but we got there.
    Ella- 8/22/08, Jules and Tuck- 12/15/10
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  • cjsbdlcjsbdl member
    After I was done breastfeeding. We did it before then, but it sucked. After weaning it was great!
  • Even with a wicked recovery (episiotomy that re-opened) Our sex life was AMAZING post baby! It was better then than before!
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