How do you entertain two at once? Any time I am feeding the baby or busy with her it seems like ds is going crazy. What can I do to keep him out of trouble?
I always gave my oldest something to do. If I was feeding the baby, I'd give her a snack, or I'd set her up with crayons and paper (RIGHT next to me), or read a book to her one-handed. I also had things gated off so she couldn't get out of eyeshot.
It also helped a lot if I had one-on-one time with her during the day. We talked a LOT about turns and how this was her turn for "mama time" and later it was brother's turn.
It's not foolproof, but it helps.
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I don't have a solution, just wanted you to know I am in the same boat. It helps when we have one-on-one time when DD is napping, but DS seems to always be in tantrum mode when I cannot give him 100% attention. I hate using the TV, but sometimes thats the only thing that will keep him entertained and out of trouble...
Ditto to all PP...give one on one time when possible, have snacks and drinks handy, offer different toys (i loaded up on the $1 target stuff, which made DD feel like she was getting a NEW treat), read books, a little bit of tv, and maybe letting a neighborhood teenager hang out.
Its also important to just relax and let older child freak out for a little bit. It wont last forever. I found that after 2-3 months older DD understood she just had to wait. AND get older child involved. Bring a diaper, a wipe, a sock, ANYTHING.
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I always gave my oldest something to do. If I was feeding the baby, I'd give her a snack, or I'd set her up with crayons and paper (RIGHT next to me), or read a book to her one-handed. I also had things gated off so she couldn't get out of eyeshot.
It also helped a lot if I had one-on-one time with her during the day. We talked a LOT about turns and how this was her turn for "mama time" and later it was brother's turn.
It's not foolproof, but it helps.
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I always took care of my older child(ren) first. Got them set up and then tended to the newborn.
Storytime, art, playdoh was huge when I was nursing my LO.
Ditto to all PP...give one on one time when possible, have snacks and drinks handy, offer different toys (i loaded up on the $1 target stuff, which made DD feel like she was getting a NEW treat), read books, a little bit of tv, and maybe letting a neighborhood teenager hang out.
Its also important to just relax and let older child freak out for a little bit. It wont last forever. I found that after 2-3 months older DD understood she just had to wait. AND get older child involved. Bring a diaper, a wipe, a sock, ANYTHING.