My extended family is really close, on both sides. We see my grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and their kids maybe every other month or so. Now that my cousins kids are getting old enough to use proper names it seems kind of awkward. My cousins were telling their son to call me Cousin Lisa, I was like EEK! Just call me Lisa. That seems weird to me!
So if you're close to your counsins, how do you handle this? Aunt/Uncle? Cousin? First name only?
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I call all of my cousins and their kids by their first name. If I'm refering to them in conversation and they're not around I may say cousin First Name but that is really rare.
I address my aunts and uncles with that title and their First Name. At this point I'm sure none of them would be offended if I dropped the "aunt" or "uncle" but I've been calling them by that for so long it's just their name to me.
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We just call them by their first name.
All my daugher's cousins call her CC, short for cousin Charlotte. But they also call me AC for Aunt Catherine, so it works.
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First name. My cousins have kids that range from 24 to 6 but they all just call me Susan.
Honestly, I think I will feel weird having my friends kids call me anything besides Susan...but I guess that could change.