My DS is almost 26 months. He was pooped trained by 18 months and that was purely by accident, but I went with it. I started pee training him 5 days ago. We went straight to underwear. Here's where we are at now: He is accident free if I take him every so often and tell him to go. If I let him be and wait for him to tell me, he will start to grab himself. I will ask if he needs to go, he will say no. If I let him be again he will tell himself out of nowhere "no no pee pee underwear". I will ask if he needs to go, he will say no. If I let him be after that he will pee a small amount in his underwear and he says, "oh no! wet". We will go to the bathroom and he will finish on the potty. I talk about how he was wet and he needs to tell me before so he doesn't get a wet spot on his underear. He looks at me like he could care less.
So should I continue with taking him every so often or should I keep waiting for him to tell me? I want him to learn to tell me to go, like he does with poop but I am not sure what's the best way to go about it from here.