Success after IF

We are home!

Little man is currently sleeping!  My staples came out this morning, so I am moving around better.  

We had a really fussy afternoon, night last night, and morning so we'll see how the rest of today goes.

I am scared to death having a newborn home... but I guess we will all get to know each other!

Just wanted to say hi! 

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Re: We are home!

  • epphdepphd member

    Yay!!  Welcome to the craziness that is having a newborn!  Expect the unexpected over the next 6 weeks.  The best advice I have is to read or watch The Happiest Baby on the Block.  Seriously - a lifesaver!

    ENJOY!

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  • I'm so glad that you're home with your little boy, I hope things go as smoothly as possible :-)
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    Yay!!  Welcome to the craziness that is having a newborn!  Expect the unexpected over the next 6 weeks.  The best advice I have is to read or watch The Happiest Baby on the Block.  Seriously - a lifesaver!

    ENJOY!

    One of my friends gave me this book and said it was a lifesaver for her! 

    Smilee - welcome home and YAY!  

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  • Yay! Welcome home hon :)
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    After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!

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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • The best words of wisdom I can give you is....this too shall pass....when you are so overwhelmed you don't think you can make it one more day just remember the newborn stage is SO SO SHORT and before you know it he will be giving you longer and longer stretches of sleep and the crying will get less and less.  We are so happy for you and can't wait to watch little man grow (in pics of course hehe)

     

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  • Welcome home and good luck- you will do great!!!!
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    Welcome home - it's definitely a little crazy, but try to enjoy as much of it as you can. Good luck!! :)
  • welcome home!! Enjoy :)
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Hooray for finally being home. I know you're an amazing mom!

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    Welcome home!  I found great consolation at this stage at knowing that there were basically three problems:  a wet diaper, hunger, and gas.  When in doubt, we would just cycle through those three until we could figure it out.  Gas was the hardest.
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  • Welcome Home! You and your DH will be fine...perhaps a little tired, but fine!  Each day gets a little easier!
    Married 5/12/07 Took 3 IUIs and 2 IVFs for our sweet boy He was worth the wait! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • You will do great!!  Try and get some rest while he is sleeping!
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  • Yay!!  I'm so happy for you to have your first night together as a family at home. 

    Gripe water really helped our LO at first (we still use it from time to time).  Also, some of the best advice I got was to let him sleep wherever it worked.  For the first 6 weeks or so for us, that was in his car seat carrier.  I spent the first week not sleeping at night because DS would only sleep if he were being held (although he would nap in his PNP during the day).  Finally, I gave in and tried the car seat - and he slept for 3 hours straight. 

    Good luck, mama!

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  • Welcome home! Just take being home one moment at a time. It can be overwhelming, but just do whatever works and don't worry about what you "should" be doing. Enjoy your precious baby boy!
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  • Welcome home! Enjoy the newborn phase, I'm sure it will go by all too quickly.
  • Yay! Welcome home! Remember to take it easy and have your husband help as much as he can. When we first got home, my duty was breastfeeding (obviously I had to wake up at night with him since I provided the food!) and a few diaper changes and he took care of the rest. Congrats again!
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  • It is scary stuff...but you will do GREAT!!

    Sleep when he sleeps, and put him to the breast whenever he even looks like he might nurse and you'll be fine!!

     

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    The best words of wisdom I can give you is....this too shall pass....when you are so overwhelmed you don't think you can make it one more day just remember the newborn stage is SO SO SHORT and before you know it he will be giving you longer and longer stretches of sleep and the crying will get less and less.  We are so happy for you and can't wait to watch little man grow (in pics of course hehe)

     

    This, totally.  I remember thinking I had no idea how I'd make it then the LOs were born.......and then all of a sudden, they're not little babies anymore, they're toddlers!

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  • He's beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • Congratulations!  He's so cute!!
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  • Yay!  Oh those first few days, I both miss them and fear them!
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  • congratulations!!!! He's adorable!!!
    Clomid x 2 cycles ..... BFN. 6/08 Gonal F with TI- BFN. 7/08 Gonal F #2 - IUI 7/11, BFN. 9/22/08 IUI #2 and Accupuncture - Chemical Pregnancy. 11/08 IUI #3 with accupuncture - BFN. 12/08 IUI #4 BFN. 5/09 IVF #1 ER 7/6/09, ET 7/9/09 - BFN. FET 12/18/09 - BFN IVF #2 -ER 3/6, ET 3/9, OMG - BFP!!! Beta #1 3/22 -332, Beta #2 3/24 - 701, Beta #3 - 14,889 - 1st u/s - TWINS!! SAIF ALWAYS WELCOME!!! ***Why can't 88 million sperm and 3 eggs find each other in an organ the size of a pear??*** Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins--not through strength but by perseverance. - H. Jackson Brown
  • Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Congrats again Smilee- he is gorgeous!!!!
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