TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I got the job!

I'm a little in shock.

So I guess that means we should probably put TTC on hold. :(

Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10

Re: I got the job!

  • Congrats!
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  • Congrats!!!
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  • That is amazing, congratulations!

    In terms of TTC...I  don't think you have to put it on hold. You have a right to your home life, regardless of new job or not. They'll just have to deal with it.

  • imageambrandau2:

    That is amazing, congratulations!

    In terms of TTC...I  don't think you have to put it on hold. You have a right to your home life, regardless of new job or not. They'll just have to deal with it.

    I'm more worried about FMLA: it doesn't kick in for a year. It's a big company and I doubt they would let me go if I had a baby before the year, but you never know... 

    I was hoping the universe would think it's funny and give me a BFP and job on the same day... Alas, no. I think it's for the best this way. Starting a job is stressful enough, nevermind adding in the early stages of pregnancy.

    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • imageredstars93:
    [I'm more worried about FMLA: it doesn't kick in for a year. It's a big company and I doubt they would let me go if I had a baby before the year, but you never know... 

    I was hoping the universe would think it's funny and give me a BFP and job on the same day... Alas, no. I think it's for the best this way. Starting a job is stressful enough, nevermind adding in the early stages of pregnancy.

    All valid points.  Congrats on the job!!  Everything else will fall into place behind it.

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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
  • imageredstars93:
    imageambrandau2:

    That is amazing, congratulations!

    In terms of TTC...I  don't think you have to put it on hold. You have a right to your home life, regardless of new job or not. They'll just have to deal with it.

    I'm more worried about FMLA: it doesn't kick in for a year. It's a big company and I doubt they would let me go if I had a baby before the year, but you never know... 

    I was hoping the universe would think it's funny and give me a BFP and job on the same day... Alas, no. I think it's for the best this way. Starting a job is stressful enough, nevermind adding in the early stages of pregnancy.

    Well, it sounds like you are thinking it through to what would be best for you guys, and that is a good thing.

     

  • Congrats on the job!  I'm going through the same thing now too.  I hope everything works out for you.
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  • Congrats!!

    Jenn

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