Some of my co-workers know about my IF and my plans with my sister. So today one of the male co-workers asked me when I'm going to get started with my sister. And I was saying October and how I couldn't wait and I just wish October would hurry up and get there. And he tells me...don't rush it. When you're up all night with a crying baby you'll wish you waited!!! EXCUSE ME??? WTF?? I've been waiting FOREVER!!! I don't think I will ever wish I waited longer...
Am I being overly sensitive?
Thanks..Vent over...
Re: It's stuff like this that pissing me off
No you are totally not being overly sensitive...
I am with you...I occasionally get the "you're young" "you should wait" "You'll wish you would have waited" and my fav. from MIL, "Think of all the things you have had a chance to do without kids, you'll be greatful that you waited."
MIL knows we've been TTC and she knows enough about our IF dx.
((hugs)) and I would have had a very hard time not offering a throat punch to this co-worker.
((HUGS))
what a douche bag!
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It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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After two losses, third time was a charm.
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