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Nurses not reading charts

So I have been going to the RE daily this week to be monitored for my ivf cycle since I am getting close to retrievel. Today they did a physical (they always do one before each cycle, check vitals and go over medical history). The nurse asks about any surgeries in the past year and I said just the d&c for the placenta that was stuck with my twins in november. She proceeds to ask what gender and says they must be getting so big. I told her I lost them since they were born too early. She says sorry and begins to take my blood pressure. I am shocked that my blood pressure number was fine after that. I held back the tears the best I could. The only good thing about my appt today was the RE I like just got back from vacation and I got to see him and he is working this weekend so he will be doing my retrievel. I am excited because he did the ivf for our twins and I was going to request him.

Jenn

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IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    oh my  how awful I am sorry you had to listen to that{{{HUGS}}}}
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    Ugh.  You would think chart reading would be the first thing you learn.  GL with the retrieval!  Can't wait to hear how it goes for you.

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    I am so sorry she was so inconsiderate.  I can't believe she didn't read the chart.  It kills me when they ask such stupid questions.

    I want to say YAY for the retrieval coming up this weekend!  So exciting!  I hope everything goes well.  ((hugs))  I'll be thinking of you!! 

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    *big hugs* yes you'd think the nurses would read the chart before.
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    Oh my goodness!!! SO sorry you had to go through that Sad

    Good luck with the retrieval, I'll be thinking of you!! {{{hugs}}}

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    That is so rough. (((HUGS)))
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    I'm so sorry your nurse was so crappy and didn't take the time to read your chart.  You deserve so much better.  I hope you get the RE you want and will be wishing you lots of IVF success!
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    I really don't understand why these people can't read a simple chart. I'm sorry.
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    Thanks girls. I know my chart is huge, but I wish they would put some colored sticker or something on the outside to let them all know that patient had a loss.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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    My other question is why the eff bother with HAVING a chart if the employees never read it. The medical profession makes me mad.

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    Dear Nurse,

    You are a douchebag. Here is a vag punch.

    Sincerely,

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