what does your SO say

msjcordova

when you get a BFN? 

DW just likes to say " its okay and we will try again" part of me loves her for her thinking but the other part just wants her to cry with me.

  

msjcordova

She also just said " it will happen when its time"

 

 

ashlyrose

He says "focus on something else for a change" "it's in God's plan" "we can try again" "why does it have to be RIGHT now".

DeputiesWife

"it will happen next time"

"dont worry babe, it will be ok"

"we just have to do it more" (this is when we were having TI, how romantic, eh?)

Rachael07.07.07

"Really? That sucks. I'm sorry." (even though our problem is 100% me, he feels like he's part of the problem)

"So what's next?"

I have to say that he is very supportive 90% of the time. He has his moments where he gets upset at me because I'm in a funk and he can't quite understand what it's like but he's my rock and I love him for that.

kkghotty

We are sort of the opposite, I think.  We have an MFI diagnosis, so everytime AF arrives, my poor DH goes down a shame spiral.  I try and make light of it even though it breaks my heart just so that he doesn't feel like I am blaming him (which I absolutely do not, and never would). 

mrshoppy_1231

kkghotty:

We are sort of the opposite, I think.  We have an MFI diagnosis, so everytime AF arrives, my poor DH goes down a shame spiral.  I try and make light of it even though it breaks my heart just so that he doesn't feel like I am blaming him (which I absolutely do not, and never would). 

I get upset and so does he. He feels so much guilt, poor guy. He knows better than to say anything along the lines of "it will happen in time", LOL

DrVWife

"I'm sorry babe."

"It is going to work for us, I know it."

"Wanna a glass of wine?"

inlovewithB

We stopped POAS about 5 months ago...He would just snuggle me, and be sad with me.