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better late than never

 I've been posting on this board for several months and never formally introduced myself.  So here it is.Big Smile

I am 36 soon to be 37.  I married my DH on Oct 3, 2009.  He is not the natural father of my DD but he is her daddy in every other since of the word.

 I was blessed to have my DD naturally after being told that I wouldn't be able to concieve naturally.  I had a botched surgery as an infant and one of my overies was damaged and then I had the misfortune of getting a severe case of the chicken pox at 21 as a result there was a lot of internal scaring of my uterus and fallopian tubes among other places.  The damage was so bad that the gyn and a specialist said that if I didn't get pregnant right away I would probably never be able to get pregnant. 

I tried desperately for 10 years to get pregnant.  After I had given up on trying and gave my body a 5 year sabatical (I know that's a long time but I needed it) and had started reserching adoption I got pregnant with my DD.  She was such a total surprise that even when I looked like I had swallowed a basketball my family found it hard to believe I was pregnant.  I met my DH when DD was 6 months.  We got married shortly after her 2nd B-day.   My DH and I are trying for our second and have only recently decided to start saving for a RE.  I had really hoped for another miracle but I don't think waiting 15 years for it would be a good idea since that would make me 52 at conception.  I know it's been done but I don't want to be the one to do it.

Any way, thank you ladies for welcoming me with such open arms. M. Echols

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