Advanced TTTC check-in

theworms

Advanced TTTC check-in

-->Please post updates below.  Please include any upcoming big appt.?s like betas and IUI?s, ER?s or ET?s and FET's.  Feel free to include any events you want some GL vibes for. Check-ins will be on Mondays & Thursdays.  

I hope I?m not missing any updates

WELCOME to?  

 

GOOD LUCK & PPV to ? Missy0708 (FET this past weekend, snuggle in little ones), Monty (u/s today)

 

CONGRATULATIONS  to?  

 

BIG ((((Hugs)))) to?. 

 

QOTD:  Please PM me or post some ??s you would like to ask the group.  It?s hard to come up with questions all the time 

 

How do you and your DH keep each other optimistic (or at least, not pessimistic)? 

 

Members:
*NestingAway* - FET in August

1RisingSun?on a break

AuburnBride06 ?pursuing adoption

BEANCOUNTR76? IVF#3 (beta 6/8)
beth&anth
bmbeck6614 (Manda)?IVF #2 BFFN, On a Break

BBLindy?

Bradbride -

Bridetobein05 ? BFN

Butterfly843? IVF#3

Catery18 ? on break trying to get healthy before next cycle

cmwbobo (Colleen)-onto IVF #4, started stims

Echloe ?  domestic adoption & 3 months lupron for endo & lap 6/11

flutterby918 ? Lap on 4/22

Fthtrstnpxiedst (Brandi)?on on break after m/c

Harley12 ?FET (on 4/20)

hopkintonbride- IVF#1 in process

Imanurse03 ? WTF 6/16
jackiemac824 ? FET in August

Jannasmith ? OHSS ET cancelled

jenbabe ? getting back in the game, possible IUI next cycle

jennylryan

jenyodi ? 2ww IVF#2
justsayjo?On a break

kammy

katieranck2202 (Katie) ? Lap 6/18, gathering info about foster care

ked1068 (Kristen) ?domestic adoption

kellymsb

Kimmilou?

KissyFaceKate ? IVF

Koyn ? trying with acu and herbs

K827

Liturgicalgirl (Kathleen)?

lmu2005 (Leslie)?cycling unmedicated

Lovemymonkey (Rose)? paper pregnant J & Surprise BFP!

Luvie13 ? IVF #1, on BCP

Merrymarissa ?  on a break

Miesl ? moving on to D-IUI

Missy0708 - IVF

miamicubajam ?IVF BFP

militarywife2b? waiting for test results, looking into DE

mjm579 ?

Morgan2004--

MontyMrs ?IVF#4, u/s today

Mrs.CMX ? consulting with new RE?s

Mrsmiller12012007--

psychmusetls ? IVF#3 in late July

rachel06 ? FET#2 BFN

roxydaisy (Tricia)? IVF #1, c/p

Saratogabride08 ? IVF, starting stims in June

so1966?TTC unmedicated, looking into adoption
Stace26 (Stacey)?IVF #2 on stims

sun,moon&stars ? IVF#2 w/ DE, DH is having surgery in July
svp1537 ?donor on BCP

Tarahville/BathinginBitter (Tarah) ? started DE cycle

theworms--- IVF 1.5 m/c

 
BFPs:

chaucer ? IVF ? BFP!

Newsbaby ?IVF#4 BFP, twins

4510Heather- IVF#1, twins

juliannat- IVF w/DE, twins

MrsAMR ? BFP twins

Kiki11

m&m2006?IVF#7 BFP!

DMD1029 ? BFP!

DrLoretta ? brought home baby girl

PeachyKate (Kate) ? BFP J

smeyer (Shannon) ? Twins J

kfbny

OrangeSmoke

DHelenL9

BRSaugust20 (Beth)

smilee- BFP w/FET#2

LNLE ? KU w/ Triplets J

Superned

vandalay

CBL

igh0318 (Kim)

Kimberic (Kim) ? KU w/ Twins

Ke11y

Tryingtogetpregnant (Jenny)

PreheatetOven - KU w/ twins

firemansflame
KoCoLoCo
kristinamh6 (Kristy)
cjsbdl (Charla)
MonkeysGirl05 (Sam)
t.bird (Trina)

duke'sgirl (Rebekah)

Mrs. Babbsy- ID twin girls

Littlemac4

Finallyreilly

Mybobble

Leslie75

CardsfanSM(Stacey)

abcteach

LBR_NJ

Epphd

Meechrobi

krissyh21

Cndalessandro (Cassie)

JamaicaMon (Ashley)

Honeygram (Michelle)

If you are thinking about asking to join this group?please read:

This is an Advanced TTTC group those who have been trying 3+ years and/or have multiple failed IUI?s /IVFs, etc. I just ask that everyone please use good judgment when asking to join...in other words, if you are still in the IUI stage or have been on this journey less than two years, this is probably not the group for you.
 
There is no doubt that this whole TTTC process is painful, but I also do believe that there is a very special kind of support that this specific group can offer to each other, and it is intended as a "safe haven" for those of us who are in that bottom 1% of the bottom 1%.

Thank you!

rachel06

QOTD: To be honest the only thing I can think of is we just support each other. My DH has been my rock through all of this. There are definitely days that are worse than others but for the most part we some how find a way to stay optimistic.

Update: Nothing to update and I feel like I won't for awhile. We have a phone consult next week that I am looking forward to. 

Missy0708

GL today Monty!

 

Update:  FET was on Saturday.  It went very well.  Our own RE surprised us at the last minute and showed up to do the transfer (the other RE called in sick).  We were so happy to see him! 

 

QOTD: How do you and your DH keep each other optimistic (or at least, not pessimistic)? It seems like I'm always the pessimistic (I like to think of it as realistic) and DH is always the cheerleader.  So much so that sometimes it annoys me! Lol  He does always manage to make me feel better and often reminds me that this is all in God's hands, not ours.

 

miesl

Update: CD35 and no AF - so I'm waiting from a call back from the clinic to find out what they want to do.  I reminded them that provera didn't do anything last time, so hopefully we don't go down that road again.

QOTD: It's tough - I'm usually such a pessimist.  We're determined to be parents - so that is what we focus on.

Echloe

GL Monty.

Update:  Nothing new.  This long break feels longer every day.

QOTD:  We try to talk about the future in a positive way.  For instance, we always say "when we have a baby", "when our child does such and such".  I think this keeps us thinking that it will happen. 

theworms

update - still waiting for the evil red whore to show up!  come on AF!

QOTD: I am annoyingly positive and optimistic and DH can be more pessimistic but ultimately we both know we will do whatever we can to be parents.  When one of us is having a bad we pick each other up.  We also like to take little get-a-ways to get out of our space.

psychmusetls

QOTD - i think that we stay focused on the long term outcome, not the journey there.  we think about when we do have kids and what our family will be like.  I think it has become much easier since we decided to adopt. we decided to put off adoption until January just to keep things less stressful (IVF3 in July and i'm taking 3 masters courses in the fall)