HELP!!!!!!!!!!

jesssy1204

this has never been a problem before but in the last month every time my husband and I have sex he cant ever finish. ?Sex either last for a long time with no success or?occasionally he goes limp. ?I have tried to spice things up but that has not been working. ?I have waited for him to start sex but still a no go. ?any advice??

dragonsmercy

Sounds like he's either preventing it himself, or he genuinely has a problem (stress?)... DH and I have many times when he doesn't finish, because he's not concentrating on it, or he tires out too easily, or I tire out/dry up too easily and can't stand it anymore.

With a past bf I was with, he had a "dry spell" but it was because there was a lot of tension in our relationship at the time, so it was stressing him a bit.

lifesadance

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mistywhite400

talk to him about it.  It could be just too wet where there isn't enough sensation for him or too dry...just ask him whats going on?  this might sound bad, but if you make it sound like it might be something you can do better then maybe he won't fee emasculated.  for example say "what can I do to make it better?"  Sometimes men have to have their ego boosted...IDK!  GL though!

jinnymb

It does sound like stress.  This happens to us sometimes when we are stressed or really tired.  Try a change of scenary, we had amazing sex on vacation, it was just more relaxing to be out of our house.  Good luck!!