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Totally burned

By the nanny... I'm so disappointed. After the prior incidents, I had kinda been keeping my eyes open fir someone else, but not seriously looking. One day last week I got home before DH and it seemed to be going pretty well. Well, Friday she texted and asked if we could get my MIL to come at 3 on fri to watch B so she could leave early. Last night she texted around 9:15 and said she couldn't make it today because her son was sick. She was so sorry, etc, etc. DH stayed home until 11 today, then his mom came and spent the rest of the day with B. The nanny has not contacted us at all today, DH called her and she didn't answer or return the call. How shady is that to leave is high and dry that way? I can't understand how someone with kids would do that. I'm just so mad I could spit.

Re: Totally burned

  • Oh man.  I think this chick needs to go.  I thought you sent B to a daycare, did you not like that place?

    I am sorry this lady is causing you so much stress. 

  • Yeah, this girl is getting ridiculous.  I didn't realize that she had kids--how old is she?  She just seems really immature.  I hope you find someone who works out better for you soon so you can stop having to stress about it all the time!
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  • Oh yea we are totally done with her. I was at least going to give her 2 weeks notice but now - if we even hear from her again - I am going to tell her just not to come back. We have looked at an in home daycare but so far haven't found anyone who is ok with our crazy long work hours.
  • imageMrsBlayne:
    Oh yea we are totally done with her. I was at least going to give her 2 weeks notice but now - if we even hear from her again - I am going to tell her just not to come back. We have looked at an in home daycare but so far haven't found anyone who is ok with our crazy long work hours.

    Good for you. I wouldn't bother giving her 2 weeks either.  She obviously has no respect for you!  Like I said before, I really hope something falls into place quickly for you! 

  • While it sucks that she has left you in a bit of a lurch it's much better that she's gone now before anything too stupid happens.

    I hope you get things sorted and can find a normal provider that is great for everyone involved.

  • imagedexspsandqs:

    While it sucks that she has left you in a bit of a lurch it's much better that she's gone now before anything too stupid happens.

    I hope you get things sorted and can find a normal provider that is great for everyone involved.

    This totally!

  • Ugh!  That totally sucks!  I'm glad to hear you're giving her the boot.  And, I don't think she deserves 2 weeks notice.  If she is this crappy of a sitter when she actually has a job, just think of what she'd be like knowing she had been fired! 

    I hope you guys find a sitter ASAP! 

  • Wow, I didn't Think she had kids either. She just seems so immature in who you described sone of her previous actions. I agree w/ pp, at least she's out of the picture and didn't pull this later, especially if Briley had been really attached to her. Vibes you guys find something soon.
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  • I am surprised to hear that she has kids based on her previous actions.  You would think someone with kids would be a bit more mature.  I'm glad that you are getting rid of her though.  Hopefully you will find someone who will work better for you. 
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    Wow, that is so rude and inconsiderate. Hoping something else works out for you guys quickly
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  • She is not being professional at all.  For someone who has kids, she should be able to relate to your situation and hopefully understand why she is being let go.
  • Hope you find someone who can be responsible and that doesn't cause stress in your life.
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