Eff, my effing life.

Ashley858 · June 2010

I have not been on Myspace in like 2 months so I decided to go look at it and of course since I love to torture myself, so do most of us. I decided to continue flipping through status updates, even though most of them were about pregnancies and babies.

Well if you happen to recall the girl I was talking about a while back that pissed me off, ex-co-worker who is pg because the condom slipped off, who decided to randomly message me to tell me all about her pregnancy, and complain. Well her status was: Healthy baby/babies heart beat! Loud and proud! and there were 2 comments so I decided to look at them also, first comment was from a friend of hers saying: Wait, you said babies does that mean there is more than one?

Her responce: They said that it sounds like either two heart beats unless it's an echo. Please say its an echo!

I know this is a completely normal thing for someone with happy go lucky uneventful puppies and rainbows pregnacies to say. But it makes me very stabby, and I inturn think "Fvck you, you FH. You get pg on accident and are having a baby be fvcking happy about it and dont complain that there may be a chance you are having 2 wonderful babies while I dont have ANY."

I have no 'real' friends in my life anymore. They all get on my nerves now with their FHness. You ladies are the only ones I have that dont make me feel stabby in any way.

Ashley858 · June 2010

And of course I have to torture myself even more by looking at another girls page to find this.

Hanging out with friends, cant wait to pick up nathan tomorrow. I love my son and husband. They are the only family I have.

Reply1: Where's the baby???

Her answer: He's with ____ (a friend)

reply2: What is with everyone handing their kids of to (said friend)

Her responce: i didnt hand him off to (friend), i asked her to watch him for a night or two. Im so sorry if you all think that makes me a bad mother, i am doing it on my own and need help sometimes. I just wish you all would get off my back,im doing the best I can!!!!!

She is 19, her DH is in the same unit mine is, in Afghanistan right now.

My thoughts: A responce of "I needed a break for a second night" would not have been bad but what she said makes me supper stabby worse than the one above.

1. The persons question was not that bad why is she freaking the hell out about it?

2. Why the fvck did you not think of that before TRYING to get pregnant at your age? Knowing that your husband would be deployed at some point in time. He was in the army before you effing married him in the first place you knew he would go somewhere. WTF is your problem?

ShellShockedMama · June 2010

Honey, step AWAY from the myspace, stop torturing yourself. Left Hug Right Hug .

We're surrounded by FH, one of which is the coffee girl at my coffee shop. She's 10 weeks pregnant, announced it three weeks ago (has yet to see a doctor) She said that twins run in her family and she doesn't want twins and wished vanishing twin syndrome on herself in the event she DID have twins.

and of course SHE'LL have the worlds most uneventful pregnancy.

Ashley858 · June 2010

ShellShockedMama:

Honey, step AWAY from the myspace, stop torturing yourself. .

We're surrounded by FH, one of which is the coffee girl at my coffee shop. She's 10 weeks pregnant, announced it three weeks ago (has yet to see a doctor) She said that twins run in her family and she doesn't want twins and wished vanishing twin syndrome on herself in the event she DID have twins.

and of course SHE'LL have the worlds most uneventful pregnancy.

Indifferent , Surprise , and Angry

Of course hers will be just wonderful. What the hell universe?

ShellShockedMama · June 2010

the universe can suck a nut, seriously.

schen0510 · June 2010

I am sorry hun. It does drive me nuts. I have an FH at work that I absolutely HATE. Right after we lost the twins and I returned to work she had the nerve to complain that the doctor wanted to go in for check ups every other week...and continued to say that her pg was such a pain. WTF.

She came in with her LO the other day as she is not back from maternity leave yet and spent the entire time complaining that he doesn't sleep, he is a bad eater, etc. She also has a 3 year old that is off the fricking wall and complained about him the entire time as well.

Life just sucks. These horrible FHs get whatever they want and then they complain!! Hello...close your legs if you can't handle the outcome!!!

Clerk9 · June 2010

These stories have just given me a reason (ONE!) to be thankful that I'm sequestered away at work for most of my life...low incidence of FH contact. But online is a total minefield. I'm so sorry you/we all have to deal with these idiots who wouldn't know something good if it kicked them in their stupid FH cankles.

BeachCole · June 2010

Oh, Ashley - that would make me stabby, too. I know there are FHs everywhere (like the other ladies stories) but unfortunately around military families you can't get away from the teenagers on kid #2 or 3. I got invited to some wives meet and greet the other night. I didn't go because I saw one of the girls on the event page do an intro post. 21, and has 4 kids. No thanks. Sorry about the FH online ambush

kndeckar · June 2010

ShellShockedMama:
the universe can suck a nut, seriously.

This totally. Big (((hugs)))

KristysRedBarn · June 2010

I'm sorry. Life is so unfair. Please step away from myspace. I've had to quit going to FB because I end up so angry, hurt and bitter.

butterfly843 · June 2010

So sorry, I can't seem to get away from fh's. I have hidden so many on fb. I was in a nice mood yesterday and waited in the parking lot before driving down a lane to let a fh pass and no wave of a thank you or anything. I didn't have to wait since she was further down I just figured I would be nice since it was so warm out.