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I am sorry

surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
I am sorry I haven't been around lately.  Please know that I am always thinking about you.  I am just struggling these days.  I didn't realize how much our EDD would affect me.  Yesterday and this morning I was numb and thought, ok this isn't so bad.  Then wham!  I am in the dark and can't find the light.
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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    ((((((BIG HUGS))))))
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    I'm thinking of you, Kona!  Sending lots of hugs your way.
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  • jen629jen629 member
    We are thinking of you honey let us know if we can do anything!
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    No need to apologize, as we totally understand.  Big hugs to you and we're here if you need us. 
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  • michroccmichrocc member

    I'm so sorry, Kona.  My EDD is in a few days and I'm also feeling it a lot more than I thought I would.  It's just so tough.  My heart hurts for all of those June babies we lost and should have.

    ::::big hugs:::  I'm thinking of you.

    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • Court1Court1
    Big hugs hun.  Don't apologize.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    ((((((HUGS))))))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    We understand.  Big hugs. 
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
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  • Ashley858Ashley858 member
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member

    Giant hugs.  EDDs suck.  They suck very, very badly.

    I'm sorry.  :(  I know you'll be back when you can - and in the meantime, we're thinking of you. 

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  • Mrs.EmmaLouiseMrs.EmmaLouise member
    ((BIG HUGS))  EDDs suck.
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    huge hugs sweetie.  EDD's are so very hard.  DO something nice for yourself today.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending ((hugs)) EDD's are so hard. I had a rough time with mine.

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin
    BIG VIRTUAL (((HUGS)))
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    (((big hugs))

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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member
    Totally understand (my EDD is next week, too, & it's been hard to get out of bed lately, much less check in on here).  Please take care of yourself & pop in whenever you need support!!!  
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  • babes12babes12 member

    it's difficult.  emotions are like peaks and valleys but you never know how high you may go or how low it may be.  i'm sorry your feeling this way.  i just struggled through Wyatt's anniversary, it definitely was a roller coaster ride and i'm still dealing w/ it. 

    great big giant ((HUGS))

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    (HUGS) Sending you lots of love, Kona. 
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  • jumagirljumagirl
    No apologies.  EDDs are really tough.  Sending big hugs to you and your DH.  
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  • writergirl5786writergirl5786 member
    ((big hugs)) we love you kona. You are such a wonderful strong woman. ((hugs))
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    ((hugs))
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    Love and hugs to you Kona.
    BFP 4/23/09. D&E 7/17/09 16W5D. BFP #2 3/10/10. EDD 11/15/10 Babycakes was born 11/5/10! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    We love you, kona. I'm right where you are, hiding out from the upcoming EDD next weekend. You are strong and wonderful and we are all here for you.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    I'm sorry you are having a tough time. I hope that it gets better with time and we are here for you when you need us (((HUGS)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    {{hugs}}
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  • rjl07rjl07
    Thinking of you!  ((hugs))
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  • kew243kew243 member
    I'm sorry Kona.  I hope you have a reason to celebrate soon!
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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    ((Big Hugs)) I'm thinking about you.

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  • LMichelleGLMichelleG member
    ((BIG HUGS))
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  • hoping&waitinghoping&waiting
    (((Hugs)))
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