TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I did it-- I called an RE

I want to set up a consultation for late August/September, when I finish 6 cycles of trying post-miscarriage.

There are some insurance issues to work out, but the nurse assured me that all will be sorted and I can set up my appointment in about a month.

I feel kind of scared and kind of excited at the same time.

BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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Re: I did it-- I called an RE

  • That's a big step and I understand feeling scared.  I hope the doctor can figure you the right plan to give you your take home baby.

    Of course, my first choice would be you getting a BFP soon and not even having to go.

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    Good for you!! I know it is scary and exciting because I just set up my appointment this week. I am really looking forward to it but I am secretely hoping that this break/natural cycle will somehow be the miracle one so I don't need to go with his treatment plan!

    Good luck and I hope you get your BFP before the appointment!

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  • I think that's great...I know I felt relieved when we set up our appt back in March. Of course medicine in Argentina is in the dark ages (not really, but they definitely aren't up on their TCOYF) so I'm super frustrated with my RE and every other doctor I've spoken with about this.

    But I hope you get the answers and a plan for getting KU, but really hoping that you get your BFP before!!! Good luck!

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    Good luck I really hope you don't need that appointment!
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  • It is a huge step and I hope that you get to cancel the appointments.  Good luck with the insurance, I hope they help you with that. 

    ((hugs))

  • imagetoddandjulie:

    That's a big step and I understand feeling scared.  I hope the doctor can figure you the right plan to give you your take home baby.

    Of course, my first choice would be you getting a BFP soon and not even having to go.

    This.  I hope that, if that can't happen, your RE gets you on the path to a sticky LO ASAP. 

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  • I'm proud of you for making the call - I know that was a big step.  I hope you get to cancel it though!

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  • Good luck!  I agree with PP that I hope you get your bfp first!
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  • I'm very, very happy you took this step.  Any step forward is a good one.  Plus, I'm banking on this scaring you into a BFP.
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  • Good for you hon. It's a big step.

    I hated doing it and felt like I was making the "I'm an official failure" call but the scheduling nurse was so kind and understanding (yep... I started crying when I made the apt).

     

  • Good luck!! I was so afraid to call and make an appt with my RE at first and now I love her.

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  • It is definitely both scary and exciting! Though I am hoping you get to cancel that appointment before then :)
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