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I am so upset right now ::update::

The RE's office called me around 3 and they are canceling my appointment for tomorrow. The secretary said that the RE's haven't reviewed my case yet???? Really cause at 7:30 this morning I wasn't told this when you wanted me to switch my appointment. She told me that they do not get the reports in till the afternoon..whatever that means. I said  I scheduled this appointment three weeks ago!!!! She's like well you can come in next week.

I was so pissed! I lost my temper and called them liars. The reason they are want me to switch is because my appointment doesn't work for them. I told them that this was no way to run a business. I was shaking in Target's parking lot. I was so livid! She said she would see what she could do but would call me tomorrow if anything changes.

I knew something was up when my cellphone rang and it was them. I knew they were going to pull something like this. When I tried to make an appointment weeks ago she told me if the doctor for some reason had opening's in the morning and you scheduled an afternoon appointment your appointment would be pushed up to an open slot in the morning. This doesn't work with H's schedule at all. So we just decided I'd schedule it for whenever and go by myself.

I couldn't stop crying when I got off the phone. I just want this nightmare to be over with! I am so sick and tired of being sick and tired. 

 

TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April

Re: I am so upset right now ::update::

  • Oh hon - I am so sorry. 

    And I am furious for you! You have been through way too much to deal with this sh!t from your RE's office. As far as I am concerned, you should be one of his #1 priorities.

    Have you ever though of switching? 

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  • Darn it. You don't need this. I'm so angry for you !!!!!!!

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  • wow, just wow...

    I am angry for you too! 

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    Oh hon - I am so sorry. 

    And I am furious for you! You have been through way too much to deal with this sh!t from your RE's office. As far as I am concerned, you should be one of his #1 priorities.

    Have you ever though of switching? 

    I just switched in March. We just do not have the money right now to have H's frozen sperm and embies moved to another facility. It cost us over 400 to get them to this clinic.

    TTC since 12/ 06: H/Azoospermia Ivf#1 BFP m/c 5w3d FET#1 c/p FET# 2 BFN IVF#2 BFFN IVF#3 March/April
  • This is TERRIBLE, I am so sorry.  I am so shocked - what an awful way to run a business.  I would not let this go by without a fight. 
  • Ugh, I'm so so sorry you have to deal with them.  Is there another RE in the area you can go to?  I went through 3 until I found one I liked.
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    imageDragonfly1226:

    Oh hon - I am so sorry. 

    And I am furious for you! You have been through way too much to deal with this sh!t from your RE's office. As far as I am concerned, you should be one of his #1 priorities.

    Have you ever though of switching? 

    I just switched in March. We just do not have the money right now to have H's frozen sperm and embies moved to another facility. It cost us over 400 to get them to this clinic.

    Uggggg... What a PITA. 

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  • I am so upset for you.  I might call tomorrow and demand to speak to RE on the phone.  I thought maybe he didn't realize the practice was being run this way but I can't imagine he has no idea what they are doing.  That is crazy!  I am so so sorry you are having to deal with this.
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    I don't know how many people have flexibility in their schedules to have availability to be at a doctors appointment with a few hours notice.  I know DH and I would be able to!

    I'm sorry-I'm so angry for you.  You deserve better!

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  • That is ridiculous!!!! I think you should just go to the WTF whenever it is finally scheduled and then get the hell out of that clinic. There is no reason for them to act like that. No reason at all.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • That is such bullsh*t!! I am so sorry!
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  • I am so sorry that they are treating you this way.  What is wrong with these doctors offices that they think they can be so unprofessional? It's disgusting!
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  • I really don't get these offices! Who treats their patients like that.
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  • That is awful!  I would switch to a new RE... this place cannot be worth that amount of stress and aggravation!  If you can't/don't want to switch, I would simply not answer the phone if they try to pull this again.  Then just show up for your appointment at your scheduled time... especially if you have their appt. reminder card with you.  They cannot keep pulling that crap.  I don't know how they are even still in business.  People have lives... schedules... you just can't mess with things constantly like that and expect people to give in.  Ridiculous!
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  • how infuriating! i'm sorry hon
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