Thanks for the adivce about family.It feels so good to just get it out of my head. I can't talk to my family becasue they get stressed out for mw too much about it all.
I DD'd because I had a nagging suspision I'd get outed IRL. But you ladies made great points and DH and I will have a talk about all of it, including how I can better deal with it and how he can stick up for us a little better. Boundaries with family are a sticky issue.
Nighty night. I'm wiped out. See y'all for hump day bump day (I've a bump but not from baby yet hehe).