TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Tired of the process

Anyone else get tired of going to the RE? I like mine, but his office consistently screws up my billing. I have to drive 45 minutes to see him, and at this point he's left us with a few options, 1 of which we're willing to try (progesterone). But now I'm dreading going back to his office and paying him $150 to talk to him for 5 minutes and get an Rx for progesterone. (sigh) I think I'm just tired of this whole process. DH and I haven't been actively TTC in months. Our heads just aren't in it anymore. I feel like every turn we take we're met with more frustration. So now we're back to the "whatever happens happens" plan. We were going to start TTC again this month, but since he's still in Germany and I'm O'ing this week, that won't happen. I think I'm a little afraid to actually TTC again. (sigh ... sorry this turned into a vent).

Re: Tired of the process

  • I'm sorry.  It is a horrible, long, frustrating process.
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  • So sorry. I like my RE and the nurses, but the new girl at the front desk has me just about ready to switch. She is so nasty, last time I let it go thinking maybe she had a rough day, today she was rude again. Usually my ob's office is the one that messes up the billing.

    Jenn

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  • no need to apologize, vent away
  • I am so sorry. The process is soul-sucking, it really is.
  • I have reached the same point as you.  I'm so tired of going there and not getting anywhere.  I really like my doctor, but can't stand the nurse who usually calls me with my results.  Luckily mine isn't far away (unless I have to go downtown on the weekend) though.  I am going in for CD3 u/s and b/w tomorrow, but I think I need to give my body a break from the meds and procedures. 

    I hope next month when your DH is back you'll feel better about TTC again.  Feel free to vent anytime.

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  • I'm sorry.  It is very tiring.  And with the loss(es,) it's like, we've been through this already!  We shouldn't have to be doing it again!
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  • Thanks ladies ... I knew if anyone would understand it would be you wonderful ladies!!
  • That's incredibly frustrating that you have to drive that far, plus have your billing screwed up.  My RE is about 45 min away too, but I've never had any problems with billing.  I'm sorry you're feeling so frustratedSad
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