TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

About to give up....

I'm seriously tired of everything. I can't stay pg and I can't get a job. Everything is just crappy right now. DH keeps pressuring me to go back to school. I'm tired of school and just can't do it anymore. I have been looking for a job since Feb. I hate my current job. I'm so burned out and need to get a real job. I haven't even gotten one interview. I just don't know how much longer I can keep doing this. I have gotten a few possible job opportunities and then they just go no where. It's so frustrating. I guess I really just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.

TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

Re: About to give up....

  • Vent away!  I'm sorry you're going through all this.  It's not fair.  ::Big hugs::
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  • no this is not fair at all. I'm sorry it seems that you're going through all of this right now at once.

     

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • I'm so sorry.  It is so overwhelming dealing with this all at once.  I have been looking for a job for almost a year now and there is nothing out there for me...but at least my current job allows for lots of bumping.  I hope things get better for you soon. 
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  • I'm sorry it's all hitting you at once or at all.  Please don't give up.  The job market is soo tough right now (I'm looking to) and something will come about.  We're here any time you need to vent. 
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    Missed m/c 11.09 | Missed m/c 3.10 | We miss you & love you so.
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  • I'm sorry.  The job market is horrible right now.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • Big hugs.  I know how you feel.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • Oh honey. You know you can always vent here. I wish things would just stop sucking and be wonderful, because YOU are wonderful and deserve good things to happen.

    :::hugs:::

  • Oh sweetie, vent away, that's what we're here for! (((BIG HUGS)))
  • I'm sorry you're going through all this. ((hugs))


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
  • Oh, Dondra - huge (hugs) sweetie. I hope things start getting better soon, don't give up. I've been out of a job for a year and half now, it's so hard to find something. Thinking of you.
  • (((hugs)))
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  • I'm sorry.

    Seems like when it rains, it pours.

    Any chance you could take a vacation or something? Even a weekend away? 

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  • Thanks ladies!

    @Lindsaylou~ we are taking a cruise in sept. I think that is about close to when we will be able to start trying again and hopefully that will help!

    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • ((hugs)) it just isn't fair ((hugs))
  • ((hugs)) it isn't fair.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • i'm sorry.  feel free to vent. 
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
  • I'm so sorry you're going through such a rough time with things all at once. Hugs.
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