TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Some days..

...it feels like I will be here forever.  Stuck in this place where I feel like my entire life is on hold & I wait & hope & get disappointed month after month.  Our ds was a surprise pg & the last pg took 2 cycles of really trying.  Now how the F have I gotten here, 7 months later with no bfp in sight?

 :::Sigh:::

I just needed to vent this morning.  Love you girls.

Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker

Re: Some days..

  • I know the feeling...I just passed the one year mark of no BFP and I feel like it might never happen.  Feel free to vent anytime.  ((hugs))
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  • I know how you feel. But somehow, deep down, I believe it will work out.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • I'm sorry you feel this way. I get that way too as I'm approaching my year mark of TTC (although I know many of you have been at it much longer and I don't mean to offend), it sucks.

    ((big hugs)) I hope it works out for you soon sweetie.


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am sorry, it isn't fair.  I hope you move on sooner then later ((Hugs)).  I had a feeling it would take me a long time.  13 months for our first bfp and now it has been over 6 months.
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    I am so sorry you are feeling that way; it's a horrible feeling.

    I am on 16 months of TTC with only an angel baby and a lost tube so show for it. I often feel frustrated and wonder how I will have the energy to get through the next cycle.

     :::hugs:::

    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
    Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
  • I am so sorry, honey. The limbo is pure hell.
  • Thanks girls.  I know you all understand how I feel....its nice to know I'm not alone.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • I'm sorry. I hope it happens soon.
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • pretty much same scenario here. 

    DS # 1 we weren't even trying but not really avoiding either.

    DS# 2 got lucky on our 3rd cycle.

    BFP # 3 took us 8 cycles.  and now i'll be back on the TTC bandwagon again.  boo.

    (((HUGS))) 

     

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
  • I'm sorry you are feeling this way. It does suck for sure! (((BIG HUGS)))

  • ((hugs)) I know how you feel. It took us so long to get a bfp with our twins and I am afraid it will take that long again.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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