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My little brother

butterfly843butterfly843
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I am the oldest of 4, my younger brother is only 5(long story my dad had kidney cancer and after all the chemo his dr's said he wouldn't be able to have anymore kids, surprise my little brother arrived) yesterday he was at our new house for a big family bbq. Usually he is always all over my dh to play with him, yesterday for some reason he only wanted me. I don't know how my parents explained my loss to him and he hasn't said anything to me until yesterday. Yesterday he asked if I had babies in my belly and when I said no he asked if my dog came out of my belly. It was so sad and almost made me cry. Next time we get pregnant I am going to make sure we don't say anything to him for as long as we can.

Jenn

image 3 IUI's all BFN

IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • rjl07rjl07
    That's so sweet. It must be so hard for him to understand at that age.  It's amazing what they pick up on too.
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    That's so sad!  He sounds really sweet, though!  You can tell he cares about you lots!
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    Aww, that sweet. I'm sure it was hard for you though. ((hugs))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I am so, so sorry honey. It's hard, with the little ones, they just don't understand.

    My niece is very curious about our babies, and I agree - for her sake and ours, I think it would be best to just keep it quiet until we are further along.

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  • ashleyy0219ashleyy0219
    I'm sorry hun, I imagine it was hard for him to understand.  (((hugs)))
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