TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Update. Thanks for T&P

So, Dr sent me for betas. I won't know for sure until Monday when I have a second draw done.

The bleeding has stopped completely, and now I'm not even spotting. Not sure what that means. Maybe it's the calm before the storm.

My Dr told me he isn't super hopeful, but he's had patients who had this happen, and were ok. He told me 'At least you're being realistic'. Uh, thanks.

You ladies kept me going during that appointment. Thank you so much for that. It was really nice to know I wasn't as alone as I felt. I can't even express my love for you all right now. 

 

Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section

Re: Update. Thanks for T&P

  • Glad the bleeding has stopped - hope it's done for good.  GL on Monday!  Hope you have something fun planned this weekend to distract you.  ((hugs))
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  • Glad the bleeding has stopped.

    Hope betas are good.

    Want to murderize your doc. 

  • Love you Carrie. I really wish your doctor was more sensitive to you, it makes me want kick him in the nuts.

    I know the wait until Monday is going to be hard; we're here whenever you need!

  • I'm glad the bleeding has stopped and I hope you get good news on Monday. Still sending you T&Ps.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • I'm sorry it wasn't more conclusive.  Did he tell you what your betas were today (or do they even know yet)?

    I know the weekend's going to drag ass.  I hope you can find some distractions.

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  • (((HUGS))))  Im praying you receive great news on Monday
  • imageColindaP:

    Glad the bleeding has stopped.

    Hope betas are good.

    Want to murderize your doc. 

    This for sure.  I hope you have things to keep you busy and keep your mind distracted this weekend.  Big hugs.

    BFP 4/23/09. D&E 7/17/09 16W5D. BFP #2 3/10/10. EDD 11/15/10 Babycakes was born 11/5/10! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm hoping with all of my heart for good news Monday.
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  • I am so glad the bleeding has stopped. I will be thinking about you. T&P, hugs, and good vibes sent your way.

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  • i really hope your betas come back nice and high and this is just a little bump in an otherwise perfect pregnancy.
  • I'm glad the bleeding ha stopped. I hope it stays gone, and that you get good news on Monday. Big hugs, and lots of T&P.
  • I'm so glad the bleeding stopped, and I hope it stays away and your betas are nice and big!

    :::hugs:::  I hate that any of us have to be 'realistic' about any of this.

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  • I am so happy that the bleeding has stopped.  I hope that it does not start again and you have a very healthy pregnancy.
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  • imageColindaP:

    Glad the bleeding has stopped.

    Hope betas are good.

    Want to murderize your doc. 

    This. I think I will refer to your doctor as "Dr Hanky the Christmas Poo" from now on because he's being such a turd!

    BFP 1/8/10, missed mc 2/15/10, baby @8w3d. Natural mc 2/23/10 Goodbye our sweet little peanut. We love you so. Every lament is a love song...
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  • Good luck sweetie.  I'm sending you everything you need. I'm sorry you are in such a limbo, it really sucks. Hugs to you.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • I am so happy to hear the bleeding has stopped, I am sending lots of T&P's your way...

    I pray that this turns out to be nothing and that you get wonderful betas!!

    BFP #1 4/2/09 EDD 12/6/09 -MC 4/12/09 BFP #2 6/2/09 EDD 2/14/10 -Ectopic in Tube, Surgery 6/23/09 BFP #3 10/15/09 EDD 6/27/10 -Daniel John 6/21/10 BFP #4 Oct 2010 Chemical Pregnancy BFP #5 8/19/11 Beta #1 82.8 Prog 17.25
  • I'm glad the bleeding stopped!!  I'm still thinking really good thoughts for you and hoping you have amazing betas!!
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    BFP #6 Samantha- 11-9-10
    BFP #7 4/20/12 21 DPO beta: 2382 29 DPO beta: 23000! HB 6w2d 116 bpm due Christmas day!
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  • So glad the bleeding has stopped.  T&P that we get to prove the dr wrong next week!
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • Carrie I'm keeping my finger, toes, eyes....everything crossed for you!!!
    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
  • Im glad the bleeding has stopped! Hopefully everything will be just fine!
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  • I'm praying that you hear good news on Monday. So glad the bleeding has stopped.
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  • Carrie you will continue to be in my prayers this weekend.  I can't imagine how much this limbo sucks.  (((hugs)))
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  • Praying for good news on Monday!
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  • I am sorry your doctor wasn't very sensitive.  I will be praying for great beta numbers and that the time between now and you get the results goes quickly!
    BFP 8/26/09, Missed M/C 9 weeks 5 days BFP 2/03/12, M/C 2/13/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • imageColindaP:

    Glad the bleeding has stopped.

    Hope betas are good.

    Want to murderize your doc. 

    All of this.

  • I am thinking good thoughts for you!!!!  Much love!
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  • (((hugs))) I'm glad the bleeding stopped.  I hope this weekend flies by and you get some well deserved good news on Monday.
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  • I"m praying that it's a positive sign that the bleeding has stopped. I've been thinking about you all day.
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  • We love you Carrie. We're here for you this weekend. Try to take it easy. I'm praying you get to be the lucky one this time.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • Continuing to send you happy thoughts.  Hoping that everything turns out okay.  ((hugs))
  • well i think we all know that anything is possible anymore and i will pray for the best for you!!!!!  (((HUGS)))
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  • ::hugs:: Thinking of you Carrie.
    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

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  • I'll be thinking about you all weekend, I hope everything turns out okay.  ((HUGS))
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  • I'm happy the bleeding stopped.  Hopefully you can try and enjoy your weekend.  Good luck, Carrie.  Big hugs!
  • ((hugs)) I am glad the bleeding has stopped. I wasn't online the last few days, but I will keep you in my thoughts. Let us know how your appt goes monday.

    Jenn

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  • I'm praying for you and hope to hear good news on Monday!! (((HUGS)))

  • I am glad to hear it has stopped. I hope it stays that way until well into February. {hugs}
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