You know you've been here too long when....(add yours)

Shemico

Its kinda depressing...

... most ppl on ttcal don't know me anymore cause its been so long I just don't have the energy to fade in as much as fade out anymore

...I know more ppl on pgal and now pal then I do on ttcal.

...when I go to pgal and see oldies or references to oldies who had sliped from my mind (their bfps were so long ago) - happy but depressing

... that I can find at least one bumpie I know from the last two pregnancies that I would have been due date budies with.

... I've seen too many people get ku and come back, heard the differnt version of the same story so many times.

*holds head in hands*

 

ColindaP

Mine are non-Bump related, but just ttcal in general related.

That every month of the year is either a BFP anniversary, a due date anniversary, or a miscarriage anniversary.

I can now describe what "always" or "usually" happens when I miscarry, the same way some people know when AF is coming, or that a migraine is coming on, etc.

I'm starting to like my infertile/miscarrying friends more than my fertile friends. 

Scout05

When you have seen the same "phish phish drive by you all are gosh dang meanie heads" so many times, you no longer get worked up about it.

 

mlmtgg

when I don't even say hi and welcome newbies. actually I don't even open their intro posts. when did I turn into B*tch #1?

when I "forget" to test (either forget OPK at home if I'm at work) - or run to bathroom in morning forget I was planning to POAS that day (even if way early) and I really don't care. 

 

heathergirl67

When I don't care about messing up a cycle because... WTF?... like I was gonna get KU anyway?

When I know more people on PAL than I do on TTCAL or TTCAL6+

When I start thinking, "If I adopt a baby" instead of "If I have a baby"

triple_sevens

...when I can't even fool myself that AF isn't coming any longer.

...when I haven't bothered to take a pregnancy test in over 8 months

... when getting to know a newbie seems like a waste of time, because they'll get their bfp and move on while I'm stuck here.

...when lurking at PgAL feels like spying on the "cool girls" secret clubhouse.

...when I realize I'll have been trying for 18 months by the time we go to the RE--and that I used to wonder how the hell people let time go by like that.

KristysRedBarn

mlmtgg:

when I don't even say hi and welcome newbies. actually I don't even open their intro posts. when did I turn into B*tch #1?

Glad to know I'm not alone on this one.  I feel kind of bad about it, but I just don't seem to have the energy to deal with it anymore.