TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Confession (not that exciting really)

My DH's cousin's FH wife irritates me for multiple reasons. Yesterday she posted on FB "Yay! We're having another girl!"

First I got super pissed. Of my four losses I only know the gender of the first two (girls) so I somehow feel like I have the rights on all girls and my permission should be given for ANY FH to have a girl before me.

Second I got really happy cause DH reminded me that the cousin really, really wanted a boy.

I'm kinda an irrational biitch.

Re: Confession (not that exciting really)

  • I hate her. :::Hugs:::
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  • Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!

     

    Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.

     

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!

     

    Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.

     

    Haven't tried logging in today under my 'real' name... will check now.

  • imagePriest_says_bless_you:

    Second I got really happy cause DH reminded me that the cousin really, really wanted a boy.

    I had the same feeling when co-irker found out she was having a boy and really really really wanted a girl.  Feels good, doesn't it?  Angel

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  • imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!

     

    Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.

     

    Haven't tried logging in today under my 'real' name... will check now.

    Nope. Still wonky.

  • imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!

     

    Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.

     

    Haven't tried logging in today under my 'real' name... will check now.

    Nope. Still wonky.

    The bump is a dirty, dirty whore.

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • imageCarrieLeigh84:
    imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!

     

    Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.

     

    Haven't tried logging in today under my 'real' name... will check now.

    Nope. Still wonky.

    The bump is a dirty, dirty whore.

    the bump is a FH

  • imagePurpleClover:
    imageCarrieLeigh84:
    imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imagePriest_says_bless_you:
    imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!

     

    Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.

     

    Haven't tried logging in today under my 'real' name... will check now.

    Nope. Still wonky.

    The bump is a dirty, dirty whore.

    the bump is a FH

    Duuuuude, the bump IS an FH. Good call. 

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  • ((hugs)) It always bothers me more when someone I know announces they are having a girl.

    Jenn

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