My DH's cousin's FH wife irritates me for multiple reasons. Yesterday she posted on FB "Yay! We're having another girl!"
First I got super pissed. Of my four losses I only know the gender of the first two (girls) so I somehow feel like I have the rights on all girls and my permission should be given for ANY FH to have a girl before me.
Second I got really happy cause DH reminded me that the cousin really, really wanted a boy.
I'm kinda an irrational biitch.
Re: Confession (not that exciting really)
Is your other s/n still not working? Boooo bump!
Anyways, I hear what you mean, about feeling like you have a monopoly on girls. I'm the same way. Yes it's irrational, but who gives a damn.
Haven't tried logging in today under my 'real' name... will check now.
I had the same feeling when co-irker found out she was having a boy and really really really wanted a girl. Feels good, doesn't it?
Nope. Still wonky.
The bump is a dirty, dirty whore.
the bump is a FH
Duuuuude, the bump IS an FH. Good call.
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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