Tomorrow we are meeting with a birthmother and so far I'm not nervous! The last meeting we had (that fell through after several weeks) had us all wound up. Even though the last experience ended badly for us, I feel as though we have really grown as a result. We are more in touch with who we are and not so worried about saying something right or wrong. We want to be chosen because of the people we are and I think that is why we are less nervous.
We have about a 2.5 hour drive, so you never know how nervous we may get!
Re: Meeting a birthmother tomorrow
Good luck! I think you are wise to feel the way you do...now if only I could manage that! :-)