WWYD?

mystical11

I'm having problems with my DH's ex-wife.  They have no children together so there would be no reason for me to have to come in contact with her. He still wants to have coffee with her at least once a month. I can't tell you how much that pissing me off. I have been told by him that he thinks "their friends".  I don't trust her because when DH and I started dating is when she wanting to hang out all the time. I feel like she wants him back.

I have put my foot down and said that DD is not going to have any contact with her under no circumstances. DH is understanding my feelings on this specific ocasion. I am fed up with the situation. I wish he would not talk to her.

The other day I had a present that was dropped off at the steps entering the house. It was a jewelry box with a watch and 2 necklaces in it from HER!!!!

 I found her on facebook and said that she would be getting all of it back and not to ever do that again. I did not appreciate the fact that she is disregarding my feelings on not wanting her at our house or near our daughter.

vent not really over but too pissed to write.

diana.filipi

What was her response when you told her she'd be getting all the stuff back?  Also, there were 2 necklaces, who were they each for?

mystical11

She hasn't replied back on facebook and she hasn't called DH because his phone is in here while his mowing the yard. Both necklaces were for me. Its just weird. I don't like her and never wanted to spend any time with her. I just don't understand why she felt the need to give me this.

thestewartsrock

Wow. I am sorry you are in this situation. I would feel uncomfortable with it as well. I think it is fine for exes to be friends if their new spouses are ok with it, but if their new spouses are uncomfortable, that takes priority. I hope you can talk to your DH and tell him exactly how you feel so that he can lay better boundaries with his ex. GL!