My story...IVF to get pg with my son, got PG on my own with my daughter. She was born 7 weeks early and was in the Nic U for two weeks. I think I just recently got over it, 2 years later.
I noticed your baby is one month old. If you are not getting enough sleep everything will seem worse to you. I recommend having someone help (if you can) and get some rest. Then see how you feel.
yes i found that it sorta ebbed and flowed and there were certain things that could set it off. i think the good days are what make people think everything is OK and they put off getting help. you should have way more good days than bad days.
I know that I put off getting help because I'd have good days. Unfortunately, that meant things got pretty bad (a panic attack that lasted a good part of several days) before I got into see someone. I'd recommend NOT doing that--it's much easier to navigate this stuff if you seek treatment before a crisis point.
Plus, mental health professionals can often be difficult to get into and you don't want to be facing a few week wait when you want to see someone NOW.
Yup. All the time. I use to want to pick up the phone and call my doctor but couldn't bring myself to do it. Then the next day would be a good day and I'd think, "see, you don't need any help." The only reason why I started seeing someone was because one day I just picked up the phone and called my doctor and she saw me the same day. If I would have had to make an appointment for a few days out I never would have kept it.
Yes! I'll have 2-3 really good days in a row and then things get bad again. It's gone on for far too long and finally 2 babies and 3 years later i'm getting help. Make your appointment today.
Re: before you seen a doctor..
I didn't even know this board exsisted!
My story...IVF to get pg with my son, got PG on my own with my daughter. She was born 7 weeks early and was in the Nic U for two weeks. I think I just recently got over it, 2 years later.
I noticed your baby is one month old. If you are not getting enough sleep everything will seem worse to you. I recommend having someone help (if you can) and get some rest. Then see how you feel.
Hope you feel better soon!
Sure, I think that's pretty common.
I know that I put off getting help because I'd have good days. Unfortunately, that meant things got pretty bad (a panic attack that lasted a good part of several days) before I got into see someone. I'd recommend NOT doing that--it's much easier to navigate this stuff if you seek treatment before a crisis point.
Plus, mental health professionals can often be difficult to get into and you don't want to be facing a few week wait when you want to see someone NOW.