TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

i'm back (long)

Everything went as well as it could i guess.  the worst part was when they drew blood.  for some reason it hurt sooo bad. i've had blood drawn many times and it's never hurt like this before so they iced it but it still hurts and i can't even straighten it out.

we got to the hospital around noon and got home around 6.  it was a long day and i almost cried a few times but i stayed strong.  i'm waiting for DH to get home w/ DS.  and hopefully i can just relax the rest of the night. 

i'll meet w/ my OB in 2wks and hopefully we'll have some results of the tissue findings.  not sure if they'll know what went wrong or not.  i did ask if they could tell if it would have been a boy or girl but they said probably not b/c there might not be enough of the hormone. 

i'm actually relieved this day is over. i don't think i realized how stressed i was about this pregnancy.  i will definitely be asking if i can get an early u/s next time around b/c i don't think i could go thru the stress of the unknown again.  i'm sure the emotional part of today and everything else will catch up w/ me later but as for now i'm going to try and clear my head and do nothing. 

thanks again for all your T&P's. You girls are the best.

Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in

Re: i'm back (long)

  • jen629jen629 member
    I am so sorry honey huge hugs!
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  • ::BIG HUGS::
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  • I'm glad things went as well as they could.  I know that there is so much more still but at least this part has past.  I hope that your OB is able to give you some kind of information that will give you something.  I've been thinking about you so much and will continue to, hugs.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • suntotosuntoto member
    Hugs!
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • hugs Babes, I'm glad today is over for you. Take some time for you and know we are thinking of you!
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  • vflipovflipo member
    ((hugs)) 
    I married a ginger.
    m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
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  • Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. :::big hugs:::
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  • ::: love and hugs to you :::
  • huge hugs to you my friend. 

    (((hugs))) 

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  • I am so sorry you had to go through all of this.

    Lots and lots of hugs, thoughts and prayers.

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    BFP #2 Matthew pPROM 23w5d 06-03-07, b/33 weeks 8-6-07, d/10-15-07 SIDS,
    BFP #3 m/c 8 weeks 2/20/09, BFP #4 m/c no hb 6w4d, m/c 9w4d, D&C 11w2d, BFP #5 C/P 12/18/09 after BFP- 9dpo
    BFP #6 Samantha- 11-9-10
    BFP #7 4/20/12 21 DPO beta: 2382 29 DPO beta: 23000! HB 6w2d 116 bpm due Christmas day!
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  • biggest hugs ever, hun. take your time with all this.
  • There are no words. I'm so sorry and we all love you. Try to get some rest.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • Glad today is over for you.  ((Big, BIG hugs))
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  • kew243kew243 member
    so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm glad you're home and ok.  Get some rest and take care of yourself.  Hugs to you.
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I'm glad you're home; I hope you can get some much needed rest.

    :::Hugs:::

  • I'm sorry.  I still just don't know what to say.  Here's hoping you can relax a bit, recover, and take care of yourself.

     

  • ((BIG HUGS))  sounds like an exhausting day.  I hope you can just lay back and relax for the long weekend and recover.  Glad the procedure went well, I hope you get some answers soon.
    ***** TTCAL/Forever Buddy to Cour10e******
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  • I am so sorry you are going throught this... I am sending you lots of prayers and good thoughts tonight.
    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
  • ((big hugs))

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • So sorry you had to go through this
  • I'm so so so very sorry.  Big, giant :::::hugs:::::
    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • I am glad you are home, and know we're thinking of you.
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • I'm glad it went as well as could be. I'm sorry you are having to go through this and I wish you a speedy recovery (((HUGS)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm so sorry. I hope your OB can give you some answers...
  • I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, although I'm glad that the day is over for you and you can start healing. Huge hugs to you.

    FWIW, when I had the tissue tested with my last D&C, they were able to identify the sex, if that is something you want to know. 

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  • lots and lots of ((((hugs))))), I am so very sorry that you are going thru this again.
  • I'm so sorry.  Hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry......((((HUGS)))
  • Big hugs to you Melissa.  I'm so sorry you had to go through this.  I know what a relief it can be to have the drama over though.  Praying for our luck to turn!
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  • Hugs!  Hope you can get some rest today.  Feel better soon.
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  • I am really sorry, sweetie.  Sending you lots of love and hugs.
  • I'm so sorry to see you back here. ((Hugs)) to you and your family.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • I haven't been on all week since I moved but I just wanted to let you know I am so sorry. Sending lots of hugs your way.

    Jenn

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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