induction tomorrow

jcthomas1281

So my OB called (to me sobbing how sorry I was my husband called and harrassed her) and said that they think they should just induce me tomorrow instead of playing around with my BP.

Hate to see what my BP is now. My poor doc comforted me over the phone saying that men lash out when they are scared, but he said such hurtful things to me last night I don't know if I will ever forgive him.

Thank God my SIL will be there. My whole family has been hurt by what he has said to them and they don't want to stay with us anymore. There is a chance that he will get kicked out of the delivery room.

I am so upset right now because if he doesn't man-up for tomorrow then I am going to have to seriously plan on leaving him. this is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, especially considering how hard we worked to get pregnant.

I said I wouldn't want any painkillers before the epi because I don't want to be loopy....but if that's the closest thing I can get to a cocktail right now, I will take it!

babyhyem

Wow, this is intense! I'm sorry you are going through this emotional roller coaster. I hope he mans up for the delivery and that the tension ceases!

Omega20

I'm so sorry that you are dealing with this stress right now.  Hopefully your induction will go very smoothly tomorrow and things will work out ok with your husband.

pea-kay

oh man, i'm sorry you're dealing with this stress right now. but look on the bright side...you get to meet your boys tomorrow! and i'll bet your husband is going to turn into a puddle of goo when we meets his sons, and his stress (and douchiness, hopefully) will melt away.

Purple_Butterflies

I'm so sorry to hear that you have to deal with this stress right now - I hope everything goes well with your induction and you and hubby are able to work things out.

Breenie29

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. It should be such a happy time for you. I really hope your DH steps up. I wish you all the best, take care.

D31

you've posted a few times about your husband's behavior, I'm so sorry you have had to deal with that stress in your life as you're trying to grow beautiful babies. is he verbally abusive? apparently, you are the tough one and need to be "the rock" for your babies, since he doesn't seem to be able to do that quite yet. Stay strong and hopefully DH will come around. best wishes for tomorrow and whatever happens in the future.