how do i forget??

gisellems

see post under "would you be upset?"

about the hole dh going to a wedding and spending money for 3 days? i guess i'm more upset about the money than anything.. i really want him to have a good time...  but how do i get past this? i dont really wanna be mad at him.. but i cant do any retail theraphy because well i just cant.. do i just have to look in my heart to let this go?? this is so hard!!! gosh i wish this next weekend would come and go fast.. i wanna for get about it already.. i guess i have a hard time forgetting about crap like this... 

roseroseroseroserose

Does talking about things help you let go?  Sometimes you just have to ask DH to listen and tell him what you are feeling without him making excuses.

You could say "I Know you want to go to the wedding and I'm not trying to talk you out of it.  I just need you to know that this is causing a finincial strain that is stressing me out.  Please understand that I really want to get our finances straight before this baby comes."

Maybe you could have some (cheap) alone time this week......browsing the mall, sitting at the park, just going outside for a long UNINTERRUPTED call to a friend.  Make sure he knows you need this time to unwind.

gisellems

thanks for your advice! and support! i'm already thinking of ways to keep me busy so i'm not fumming all weekend long! good thing my brother is staying with us he is such a big help and he keeps me company!