DH won't stop...

maltwin1

...telling people!!! When we first found out we were pregnant we agreed that we'd tell our families on Mother's Day and wait to tell anyone else until after the u/s (which is not until June 1).

Well, I told my best friend and told her not to tell anyone and she didn't. Not even her husband. So far DH has told 4 guys who have, in turn, told 2 of their wives who are my good friends. I don't really mind that he's telling because I'm glad he's excited, but it does bother me a little that he's told all these people without me there. I feel like I'm missing all the excitement because now its old news by the time I see people.

Vent over...thanks ladies!

izzourclue

That's rough.  I would be pretty p!ssed if my DH went against our agreement about when to tell. 

danamh83

DH has drill this weekend and sent me a text telling me he just told his battle buddies.  WTF DH!!?  However, the only ppl we agreed not to tell right away were my mom, g-mom and extended family, due to the fact that they'll have so much negative shiit to say about it and we really don't want to hear it.

itsmegin

That sucks. I feel like once it's out, it's not really a secret, but I also want to share the fun of telling everyone.

We were going to wait until 2nd Tri, but with the stuff that happened to my mom, we wanted to tell her, so we had to tell DH's family, and now we're going to tell only our closest friends, starting tonight.

I would rather not tell everyone, but I feel like now that so many people know, it's bound to come out so I'd rather be the one to tell my friends than have them hear it on facebook or through some rumor.

nohalo21

He keeps spilling the beans also. I know he is excited but I would rather wait until we see the u/s and all. We agreed to tell our parents only. The count is now up to 10 I think.

hot_tamale

Mine is doing the same thing too. He told the neighbors! I am not even that close with them. I think it is cute that he is so excited, but honestly. I told him to chill and he said he would. I think the whole world knows now, so the issue might be moot.