xp from 1st tri: update

carmeng

Hi ladies, well we got the dreaded phone call yesterday afternoon and it was the worst possible news. I had prayed that if there was something really bad that I'd prefer for it to be the worst so that a decision would be made for us and that is exactly what happened. 

Everything happens for a reason and I don't know what that reason is, in my world only God does and I'm ok with that. I'm not angry, I know eventually everything will be back to normal.  

Thank you all so much for your support during this difficult time.

TIA!

smynings_bride

I'm so sorry your results were not what you hoped.

Deanne Shehane

so, so sorry. thoughts and prayers to you

Beaker38

Oh I hate reading this!!  I am so sorry!!  Many many prayers coming your way!  Hope to see you around here again soon!

suzshack

Oh I'm so very sorry.  With previous preg., I got a devastating call after CVS too, so I know how horrible & painful that is.  Devastating.  And I just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you, and I know that it hurts, and I wish you all the strength in the world to get through this.  

And my story's in my sig., but basically, about 6 months after our tragic loss, we got preg. again, and now I'm due in a few weeks.  I still grieve over the loss of our first baby girl, though, and I think about that pregnancy often. 

I think the best advice I got from a friend was this-- it's okay to feel however you're feeling--don't worry about what other people think or try to live up to some expectation of how you should be acting, just take care of yourself.