First m/c

jolieandscott

I miscarried at 5 weeks. Had bleeding, spotting ever since BFP last week. I had a feeling this was going to happen, and I knew it would hurt...I just didn't know it would hit me this hard. I wanted this baby so bad. I'll never get over this. Please help.

I see that most of you have had it so much worse, so also please accept my condolences and apologies.

 j.

magdalina.h

I'm so sorry for your loss. We don't compare losses here since all types are hard.

acast187

We are all in pain not matter how far along we were... I'm sorry for your lose and you can stay here as long as you want.*hugs*

jolieandscott

Thank you to the both of you. It is a blessing to come here. I imagine I'll stick around for awhile.

SoftSpot

I'm so sorry for you loss. I've been lurking here since my second miscarriage and these ladies are so supportive. I hope you can find some solace in this board.

elizabeth&james

I'm very sorry for your loss and the sadness you are experiencing. It's a really rough road and this board has been so helpful for me. Hope it is for you, too.

SassyMamainVA

I'm so sorry for your loss.  It's so devastating.  We all know how awful it is to go through this.  I hope you can find support and comfort from the ladies here...they are wonderful.

AmberZ2be

I am so sorry for your loss.

millejj1

I'm so sorry for you loss.

Gummybear

One thing you won't find here is the pain olympics. (((hugs))) I am sorry for your loss.

CashewsMommy

A loss is a loss no matter how far along you are. I'm so sorry for your loss.

SmallestWilk

I'm so sorry you have to be here. As said in PP -- no comparing. We're all mothers who lost a child. Hope you get the support you need here.

damabo80

I'm so sorry for your loss. A loss is a loss, whether that happens after knowing about the baby for 1 minute, or 40 weeks.

I hope that you will find comfort here in the days and weeks to come.  We understand where you are coming from.

Let me promise you that it does get easier. This is the worst emotional pain I have ever experienced, but it has gotten better, meaning that it becomes part of us, and we learn ways to cope with it. It will be a roller coaster.....some days you will feel OK, and other days will be very low. But eventually, the OK days to start to outnumber the low days. Hugs to you.

Fryday37

i dont think there is better or worse; a loss is a loss and it is really hard no matter when it happens. i'm so sorry you had to go through this. take care of yourself.

Lorange-8

I'm sorry for your loss. We are all here for you!

Amanda02a

I am so sorry for your loss.  Please do not think that your loss is less significant than another's. Your baby was loved and had weight in this world.  We all grieve with you.  I hope you can find comfort and support from this board.  

bekahjen

I am experiencing my first loss and want to extend my T&P to everyone on this board.

I also want to say thank you for validating the fact that "a loss is a loss."  No one ever wants to have to post here, but the reality is that we do...that I do.

I've been trying to remain practical about this, "if it wasn't mean to be..." etc., etc., etc.

But we wanted it to be so badly!  And we were so excited...and then so sad.

Somehow I kept thinking "chemical pregnancy" didn't really mean I lost anything because it wasn't too much yet.  But to me and DH, it was our baby.

I have a feeling the ride isn't over yet...I'm consoled by everyone here though.  So shocked to see so many.

T&P to everyone.